OMNICELL's Blog

by **OMNICELL** on Fri Jul 25, 2025 8:21 pm

As I advance a bit in the neighborhood
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Im saying hello to almost everyone I can while on my bike; Ive only had about 2 people not respond; and even in that; it was a kind of; well; thats their defense; I get it. My opinion on that; one does not know who or what they are. Im just taking my color of it…
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Yes; I had one women roll her eyes at me like; “ OLD MAN” Stop staring at me… someone I just kind of walked by in the store… However; if I had preemptively put my hand up in friends gesture and said hi; it may have gone differently. I would have said hi before she knew what happened.
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So; in general Im opening up to allot of people around… especially on my bike.
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Another interesting thing; I was picking up a piece of garbage from a parking lot; I do this randomly one piece at a time at times; its an act of kindness… Some kid come out emptying a garbage can; saw me; I saw he rode up to him put the garbage in the garbage can; he looked at me and said; Thanks I appreciate you picking up some garbage in the parking lot.
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Why is this important.
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1. He said this to me; “ I appreciate you”
2. Next; I would ask myself the question; How could I have future friends or girlfriends; how could I get them to say that about me. That they appreciate me; Well; I would have to do something for them; some act of kindness toward them.. something free. A gift of niceness. Ill work with God on this… Amen. Being kind… authentically; unconditional. Like unconditional love.
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Back to the subject;
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WOMEN; And Dating and girlfriends.
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When I was young; I had a girl I liked; I got around her flirted with her; but could go no further. Maybe it was her; maybe it was me. Maybe I sensed I was being used. Meaning; she could get better and wanted better; but I was the only one available at that moment; So; Im better then nothing; thats how it felt. To Bad; I was better then anyone she ever met. What I didn’t realize was; she didn’t care because I was never on her raider wont work; its a waist of time. I have to work with God and my inner being to attract someone that appreciates me; wanting to be around me.
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Back to the story.
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The point about that girl; she wanted to fool around with me or get close to me; she wanted me to ask her out. I couldn’t or wouldn't. But another girl at that time; I had no problem getting physically close with at a party. But when I thought about that girl up the street; I couldn’t. In the end I stopped associating with her. I didn’t trust her… but I loved her….
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Lets look at this from the perspective that; I could touch someone that didn’t really mean anything to me; but I could not touch someone when it was offered from someone I was in love.
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Next problem; I never told that person I liked; I never told them this problem; so they might work with me and help me. I wont know what they actually would have done.
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So; I gave up trying to go after women I thought where in my worth range because they all seem to think they were much much better then me; or could get better. They simply never saw my worth.
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Example of being looked past or looked over and discarded.
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One time; I had a wallet full a cash. I wanted to buy an expensive bike. I walked into a local bike shop; They did not take me seriously; I didn’t look like someone from the elite college crowd. I looked like a ruffian from the streets with bikes for jumping off roof tops…
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I was not liked and not taken seriously. However; I have enough money on me to buy one of their very expensive bikes; something they would have to order. It never got that far; they never really cared to even notice me certainly to work with me. I ended up buying a bike out of state…
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I was not noticed or valued or appreciated. I had all the money they were looking for; still; they just looked me over and passed on me…
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So; here was a situation ...

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by **OMNICELL** on Fri Jul 25, 2025 6:34 am

The new step with God concerning dating….
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Dear God; show me how to interact with the people you are sending; How to meet them…
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This means; I go somewhere and show up and out of a crowd of people or something; or I meet someone randomly or through a friend; maybe its someones sister or something…
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Its learning all the preparation of meeting someone.
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This is truly the next step.
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Certainly Ive studied such techniques through books n websites for years; This is something different; this is from Gods perspective… This is real world. Into the real world I go…
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Ill be learning how to handle the real world… until I find those people God is sending me…
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Ive noticed 2 kinds of people; Asian Girls or Quaker girls… That seems to be who shows up. Thats literally who has shown up… But Im to bashful to say hello or take it any further… I wouldn't the slightest how to take it any further.
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Its more like I see these people but they are not accessible. I would have to meet them through a friend or at a party or something… Ill work with God on these things.
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How would I know who to call or ask out. What about age. Im an old man. Any old man will always feel comfortable thinking they can go out with younger women. But they cant or they are dreaming; will be led on and dumped by those younger women; But who knows.
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These are the chances I have to prepare for…
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Sometimes I feel this is ridiculous; Like Im just way to old for any of this. To attract anyone; but the other day at the Post Office some chick was checking me out….
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I have to learn to give God a chance with me in these situations. Its so heart rendering; so much horror and damage from all of this when young. I stopped dating before I started; never got involved again after the first girl I loved; realized I meant nothing to her and I was being played. I don’t like to admit it but its true. This was happening because this was the wrong person to associate with. But no one could tell me. I knew everything. I was horribly insecure and needy; I had no love and was thrown away… but the world did not care; No one did. I had no friends; nothing.
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This one girl I called and wanted to take an interest had no interest in me. I think I was around just for her kicks for a few months; she had no real other prospects yet and just kind of let me hang around; but I meant nothing to her… no respect for me; just contempt and little if no attraction; nothing… I had the unfortunate concept of thinking I could help her because she was not loved. Unfortunately I did not know what I was talking about. She was just fine. I was the one that needed to be loved; not this person; and I will pay for my folly of finding myself at the wrong house with the wrong people.
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I was no longer interested in ever getting involved with women ever again. I had seen to much… They were horrible people. Monsters… I had no idea… They were like criminals. Godless… Even those claiming to be involved with God; Nothing; just a show or a front. These people were not safe!
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Now I seek my very first girlfriend.
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When I was 14; This First girl I met Ive described above was suppose to be my first girlfriend; Never turned out. I never got anywhere… she was not interested in someone like me. I was crushed and heart broken. No matter what I did or how hard I tried; she simply made it clear she could get better… And hopeless I finally gave up and just dropped out and went away.
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Now; under God; Ill see what can happen. See What God wants for me… I just wanted a wife; a girlfriend that turns into a wife; thats all I ever wanted. I still believe. The problem has been; Wrong people…
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So; Ill be working with God on this concept of leaving the wrong people alone and concentrating on the right ones.
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This is by far the worst type of thing to go through; its just horrible…. Having to go throu...

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by **OMNICELL** on Fri Jul 25, 2025 5:03 am

Strange thing happened tonight…
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I was in a meeting and a women across from me in the meeting; someone Ive seen before; she was sitting up against the wall across from me. It was not a nice scene; it was competitive and stressful. Many times Ive seen women weaponize this situation. If I look up simply to look up from my angle; Ive got that women right direction in front of me on the opposite wall; Suddenly she starts to squirm as if shes being visually taken advantage of. Ive seen it 1000000000 times. Nothing new… And it was happening again this time. Its like shes not safe; shes got a needy hovering guy checking her out or something; someone who doesn’t have a chance with her. When in reality; non of us guys have any other place to look.. We lift our heads and their she is before we can dart one way or the other…
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I finally gave up and just looked at that floor or to the sides or took my writing note book in and wrote instead of looking around…
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I LEARNED SOMETHING TONIGHT….
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Its getting very close; I don’t have to take my romantic problems to anyone accept God; I don’t have to expect anything from these strangers at a meeting; I can for go all of them and just take myself and my goals to God and bi pass all of this.
And that is what Ive been working for concerning this goal of relationship. I used the groups therapeutically; working through my stuff; until I didn’t need them for it anymore; it all gets switched to God. I began to get enough skills learned on my own to stand on my own 2 feet and go after what I want; I turn to God and my success based thinking information Ive been studying for several years. I still go to the meetings; but don’t need the meetings anymore to help support this process Im learning about the beginning processes of getting back into relationship at this point in my life. And has this happened? No! Not yet; But tonight surprised me; I actually felt it. Heck with these people in these meetings. Im strong enough now to simply take it all to God and work with God directly; And that was the message I was getting from God.. Im getting close… I didn’t expect that tonight. I never saw it coming…
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Im still working through issues concerning relationships.
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In my life when young; I was completely devoid of reality or being part of it; but I was attracting massive women from everywhere. But because it was all physical. I never really learned how to go after the right girl for a relationship.
I was inundated with massive amount of beautiful women… The best looking women in town… but non of it did me any good. I had nothing in common with these people; I was lonely the whole time. Finally I just gave up. I didn’t care anymore; I gave up on the whole idea of having any relationship with anyone… I just walked away and never returned. Anytime I saw a beautiful women I just about puked. I didn’t want them within 100 miles me. I simply didn’t want anything more to do with the dating or romance process in my country… Nothing made any sense…
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The first girl I attempted to like; I was destroyed.. it was like I had my arms bit off. Nothing made any sense…
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I got know where because I did not want to date any of these people; They horrified me… it was unbelievable.
I just gave up and never came back.
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TO THE PRESENT:
After being in the recovery process; God said to me. “ Omnicell”; If you would stop dating those kind of women all of these problems with them will stop! This hit me hard. I never saw this from that perspective.
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But the most important perspective God was trying to give me; If I didn’t attract those kind of women; What then would I do now? I would be just like everyone else who had to learn how to go out and find a girlfriend; Some girl that was my best friend; Thats an inside job; thats not about her looks; thats about who she is on the inside; Finding someone that actually liked me val...

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by **OMNICELL** on Thu Jul 24, 2025 8:47 pm

Signs are showing the present areas Im involved in or have been; Im sailing through and possibly going beyond the boarder line of this present condition situation and perimeter.
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When I grow out of my present situation; people show up from the past; usually people of stress I did not like or get along with; and its possible; or women who liked me and wouldnt change so I never really started with them. Never got close.
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I just got innocently and authentically presented as a married man with a wife and children and house and car; 100% by someone; As if I was a normal married man under the stress of having a family and house and car and kids and family; It was from God; it slammed me like a tsunami.
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I really felt it when that Gent said that to me and the group. He said it in front of the group; Im not sure he even knew what he was doing… I don’t think he did; it was strait from the universe and I felt it; I felt the responsibility I would be under; the stress.. I really felt it; like I was married and has responsibility. It also had a feeling of being connected to my childhood; that being married is where I was suppose to be; or have been…
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SO; here I am.. Its slowly materializing.
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Today at the big store; more people showing up from the past; right in front of me… When I was and have been thinking and working on visualizing a wife and children. Suddenly out of know where; women from the past are showing up around me.. Fair enough; I get it; its the universe sending clues.
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Now; as I get stronger; and Ill have to keep working on it; Ive got allot of growing up to do in a specific area where there is nothing but a hallow non development; its a place I was thrown away… and now working God; Im slowly waking up to it and finding myself closer and closer to walking through that time portal to a new life… its closer; all of this. And it hurts really bad… all of this.
Well; Im moving toward participating in a areas. And Im growing through it and into it!.. \
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Im having to wake up where Im in massive pain from being thrown away and exposed to horror with no help; no one on my side; no way out; nothing; God is making me relive it; go through it at-least to come out on the other side. Amen
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Im simply going through all of this; I don’t know where its going to end up…
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by **OMNICELL** on Mon Jul 21, 2025 2:45 am

So; some of the girls in this recent episode of my development; They are truly not my friends. I got played or worse. What ever that can be. They are cold as ice with me as if I never met them; they could care less who I am; if they ever see me again; Nothing. I was simply put in my place by them. I assume a game they were playing with other women in the group to push it and see if they could put me in my place. They are certainly not friends of mine.
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How do I feel; Nothing! Im not stupid enough to fall for those things. Would I did do was fall inline with my higher power and allow my higher power to send me in a direction; and it happened and I gained advantage and experience; It was like a quantum shift; what happened. With in a few weeks to a month. I became popular with many women; and thus was see by other women and noticed and some of them taking notice began to call me out. I; in my innocence; actually had no reason to believe anything other then; they were genuinely interested in me; They were not; they were cold heartedly playing me with absolutely no interest in ever talking to me or seeing me again. They could care less who I am or that they ever saw her heard me speak or ever met me for the short time they did.
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This is what I know. I have to slowly allow God to take me over into the next threshold. It is upon me.
Ill explain.
This girl that played me. She actually allowed me to gain some very important experience down my God Pathway toward my wife; but first toward opening up to the world and dating again. I came within the last moment of actually dating someone again after numerous years out of the circle of this kind of thing.
In order for me to date; I have to be back in; in with people; with society; back in with women; within the middle circle. And that is what is happening. God made it happen…
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However; I never was able to follow through; I never received another text and the person has never talked to me since; and appears to act like I have never met her… I can see the hostility and contempt in her face; a kind of anger and stern hatred of no interest for me.
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Ive stayed to my myself now; from that crowd. Im no longer around any of those people. Im not popular anymore; I literally dislocated myself from those people. And im not popular anymore.
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After all of this; other events occurred in a truly favorable manner… a real intimacy night with many of us in the recovery process sitting and talking about dating. It was truly God created. I was in shock this would ever happen for me; to feel “ IN” again like this; like feeling like I belonged to one big family.
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Then; ;later; a week later; I told the story of change. And another women spouted out; Hey I think Im going to the park and feed the ducks after the meeting. That would have been a cue for me to meet up with this other person and feed the ducks with her; thus establishing a kind of date. And that would have pulled me over into that world… Im that close… But I didn’t; I know the person. But just didn’t jump on that situation. Another will occur.
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So; Im in this place. God wants me to learn abundance! That means; theirs more then one girl on planet earth; I may have to learn what women have to deal with in life; Having numerous girl in waiting because I don’t know which will strike that match between us. I might try out several God has sent but for what ever reason; it never happens. And then finally with enough experience; Ill be so close to meeting the right one; having us at each others frequency; It may be in walking distance that I find her. But only at that point of experience.
Im now moving into the frame of area; meaning that new describe place where I take women to the park and we feed the ducks. What ever that may mean; but it means; the beginning of actual dating. And I believe Ill meet many women first and get lots of experience under God with this...

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As I advance a bit in the neighborhood

The new step with God concerning dating….

Strange thing happened tonight…

Going beyond the boarder line of this present reality

Getting close to a new quantum leap into a new area of developme

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