Maybe it's me being a teenager but I get this feeling that "your a kid we just want what's best for you" eventually turns into "your young trust us" and eventually when your in your mid to late twenties and thirties to "where older trust what where saying". I feel like there's no end to parents and we oder adults within a family saying things like that, the problem is is that these statements aren't wrong but I feel like most people say it in a condescending way, like I can't make my own decisions, they don't provide any evidence as to why what there saying is better I should just trust them because there an adult. I also get this feeling with my mom and stepdad that they think I'm obligated to live with them into I can be self-sufficient because they "raised me 99% of the time" apparently I'm to stupid to realize this because I didn't know this until yesterday. They think I'm going to be a failure if I go and live with my dad. They don't trust that I'm going to make smart decisions without them and it angers me, it sounds very condescending.