I've been talking to my step dad about moving and he is telling me to do what is best for me but he also keeps telling me that my sister really needs me and wants me to move. It's like he's telling me that you can do what you want but if you stay you being very ungrateful, but he's being very passive agressive while saying it. He is right about a few things though, my dad probably couldn't pay for my schooling, financially it would probably be best to move with him it's not like I couldn't see my family here at home but the problem is that I don't want to move out of state. I don't know what to do should I stay home and struggle a little bit or should I move with him because it's the more financially sound disission it's not like I don't have family here who can't help me but my dad isn't as financially stable as my step dad is. He's not struggling at all but he makes less than my step dad. I tended to be with my mom and step dad more often for school and cat reasons for the past couple years. And than there's my sister who according to my parents needs me. I dislike that they all need me for emotional support I wish I could live on my own and forget about all of them. Tuff disission suck.