The Waif "learned that submissive behavior was the most adaptive response to an oppressive environment." She also "sees herself as an incompetent failure, and is overly dependent on the approval of others."

The Hermit is "a perfectionist, a worrier, and . . . an insomniac. . . Hermit mothers suffer from persistent fantasies of harm coming to themselves or others, and tend to attribute hostile intentions to others."

Queen mothers "compete with their children for time, attention, love, and money." And "The dramatic and sometimes hysterical behavior of the Queen mother can terrify her children."

And finally, Witch mothers can be "bitter, demanding, sarcastic, and cruel," and "Witch mothers know what to say to hurt or scare their children, and use humiliation and degradation to punish them."

-- Tue Oct 15, 2013 1:33 pm --

Whatever I am, I am always either a mix of things or I am in between things. I have a core but it is very weak.

NO QUEEN

Work-the Waif at work and to some extent the Hermit

Witch when highly upset

Like I said, I am always a mixture of things.

Someone else said that they felt co-morbid with something else. I Am either a BPD with Histronic tendencies or a Histrionic with BPD tendencies.


I am in survival mode right now, so I don't feel too harmed by the labels. I( wonder if there is a good side to these that one could cultivate to create a better personality.

One of the greatest blasphemies is the taking of one's freedom of thought, dictating matters of the heart and the theft of another's personal peace.

Everyday I live is an act of rebellion.

Maverick-a dissenter, an artist

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