News of Sexual Dysfunctions Forum

Yeah you read that right - I have not had an orgasm in over 10 months since I broke up with my ex. The reason is - psychologically I cannot force myself to masturbate, it reminds me too much of my abuse as a child, and I cannot physically do it.

Because of this, I am in constant pain from buildup, and this causes also depression, anxiety and anger to come up (obviously).

When I ...

Has anyone else had this problem?

Doggy....i just don't wanna cum. When i am on top, in her, missionary, i mostly don't feel even close to ejaculating.
When i flip on to my back and she is on top....it doesn't take very long to cum.
This is really frustrating for her, she would love for me to cum, with me on top.
Help!
Any advice, guys? Please

I feel like I'm detached from my sexuality. When I was younger than twelve I just seemed to know who I was attracted to. When I was twleve I forced myself to be attracted to boys and not girls(I'm a girl). It was pretty confusing. I sometimes convinced myself that I changed. After that I tried to accept myself as gay. Everyone insisted I was just straight. That made me feel very stupid and worthless ...

Hello,
I think i might have a sexual disfunction. Usually the only way i ejaculate is by squizing my genitals between my legs for a couple of minutes. This is the way i masturbate since i was a kid. Now with my first sexual partner (women) i do not ejaculate during the ususal sex act. I can perform for a large amount of time (many hours) in the common position with an erect penis, penetrating ...

I've heard that depression lowers sex drive, but does it completely kill it? To the point that sex literally doesn't cross someone's mind and that they don't see their girlfriend in a sexual light and porn doesn't interest them?

SO, awhile back I used to have voices telling me to jack off 24/7, nullifying any real pleasure of the act; almost as a form of torture just to do it because they said so.
Well it's been some time and the harshness of these characters have disappeared; but not the quality of my own thoughts.
I've had many disturbing images in my head that lead me to feel unnerved about myself; ones that are ...

I'm not really sure how to feel. Sex used to be such a fun, pleasurable, satisfying experience for me. I have been diagnosed with and suffered from OCD for the majority of my life. Recently, ever since my obsessive compulsive thoughts took hold of me it just seems like I've lost all interest.

What's worse, is that these obsessions are sexual in nature. I thought they were gone, but they've just gone into hiding. I'm ...

I am a 59 year old male. I was married for 34 years and divorced about 3 years ago. For most of our marriage, our sex life was good. It took a little extra work and Viagra in later years but generally our sex life was good. About 2 years before our divorce, my ex-wife developed cancer (which thankfully she survived), but obviously our sex life went to almost zero for at least a year ...

So I'm beginning to wonder if cock size matters to girls and if it makes a difference in a healthy lasting relationship.

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I think it is because of social anxiety, how do I overcome it, can it at all be overcomed? I am scared to get pregnant or I dont even know of what but I can orgasm only when my husband does not look at me or better is out of the room. This is sad because I am in deep love with my husband. Sex is painful physically to me but sometimes I relax and ...