Male - Can only ejaculate on his back

Has anyone else had this problem?

Doggy....i just don't wanna cum. When i am on top, in her, missionary, i mostly don't feel even close to ejaculating.
When i flip on to my back and she is on top....it doesn't take very long to cum.
This is really frustrating for her, she would love for me to cum, with me on top.
Help!
Any advice, guys? Please

masturbation technique person number 5 can't do it doggy style because your masturbation technique uses more pressure than you can get doing dogging style with your wife obvious because when you turn over and wife gets on top its putting more pressure on penis so it's easier to ejaculate, you have desensitized your penis I don't know if exactly like prone but its the same thing there is even a chart that describes the ejaculation success rates for each position from men who are suffering from prone remember any masturbation technique that uses an unnatural amount of pressure/friction/force doesn't have to be prone. it either tat or you have conditioned yourself to only be able to ejac with wife on top, same approach to becoming cured

Although about 90 percent of males masturbate by hand, about 5-10 percent masturbate by lying face down and thrusting the penis into or against the bed, pillow, or something else. Although masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, prone masturbation causes severe sexual dysfunction in most males who practice it. This web site describes prone masturbation and the problems of its practitioners and offers case studies and approaches to becoming cured.

healthystrokes.com

kevs099 wrote:Although about 90 percent of males masturbate by hand, about 5-10 percent masturbate by lying face down and thrusting the penis into or against the bed, pillow, or something else. Although masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun, prone masturbation causes severe sexual dysfunction in most males who practice it. This web site describes prone masturbation and the problems of its practitioners and offers case studies and approaches to becoming cured.

healthystrokes.com

I was thinking problem has nothing to do with your masturbation technique, more likely that you are conditioned to ejaculate on your back with wife on top, it's the same symptoms of prone masturbation and same approaches to becoming cured

jontiger37 wrote:Doggy....i just don't wanna cum. When i am on top, in her, missionary, i mostly don't feel even close to ejaculating

I just thought of a simple solution for not being able to ejaculate when having sex doggy or missionary style, wish I had thought of it earlier

The sensitivity of your penis has been conditioned so that the only way you can ejaculate is by having your wife on top with the extra pressure and friction it places on your penis, am I right? You won't be needing the resources of healthy strokes but if you go there and read on how to become cured of prone masturbation it first calls for stopping masturbation for 3-4 weeks at which time the person starts practicing normal masturbation technique using less pressure and friction on the penis.

The long pause in masturbation allows for the penis to recover sensitivity. I suggest simply stop having your wife on top and in 3 or 4 weeks you will be doggin her and performing missionary like a pro. Keep in mind if you feel like masturbating be gentle and don't use any more pressure than what it feels like when having sex with your wife doggy or missionary. You probably won't be successful masturbating using light pressure on our penis at first and it may take more than 4 weeks, maybe less but when you are successful with masturbation you will know it's time to try it with the wife and I'm confident it will work for you.

Quoted below see content from healthy strokes that relates to your concern

What's wrong with masturbating prone?

Nearly all males agree that masturbating face up is a fun and delightful practice, but masturbating face down puts excessive pressure on the penis, and especially on the base of the penis. These sensations are not easily replicated in conventional masturbation or in sexual intercourse. This is not analagous to intercourse being performed face down, as most males do, because the partner's body provides more resistance than the objects a male who masturbates prone uses to thrust into or against. Prone masturbation can reduce the ability of a male to have normal sexual relations

The most common problems males who masturbate prone have are delayed orgasm or a complete inability to have an orgasm during intercourse (anorgasmia). Many males who masturbate prone also have trouble getting erections. It's a common experience among males who are used to masturbating face down to be unable to have an orgasm even after engaging in sexual intercourse for over half an hour. The female partners of these men find this outcome unusual and often wonder if they are to blame for the man's inability to reach orgasm through intercourse.

i owe you big time for this, it makes so much sense. So the weekend has come and gone, and i am going to abstain now for the next 4 weeks. I dont quite know how im going to do it, but i am going to do my damndest. Tankyou so much!

Interesting.

Is it just physical, I wonder, or is there something psychological as well?

For me, on top/missionary is too easy to achieve orgasm. I think because the intimacy is a real turn on. I can only stand a short while of that, then have go to doggy to extend the act. I really think it's just the psychological difference for me.

jontiger37 wrote:i owe you big time for this, Tankyou so much!

It's a privilege seeing your message and knowing that I helped you with the means to help yourself and make a difference in the quality of your life and marriage

Hell yes it's going to be hard, men suffering from prone masturbation almost always fail at the first attempt to become cured

I don't know where I got the idea you were married when I said "your wife" about a dozens times but it all worked the same

Strenuous exercise, extreme sports like rock climbing, bungee jumping and paragliding. Revisit an old hobby that is dormant, attend church, do volunteer work, make your house spotless, finish half done projects, stay away from porn and other sexualized media by the only means possible, listen to classical or gospel music radio LOL

well i am still abstaining is all i can tell you. I am really anxious as to whether or not i will be cured. Time will tell!
I did wonder whether it was all in my head too, but i am thinking that going this route will definitely help me!

Well it has been 3 weeks and i havent so much as stroked.
Bad news, i know you said 4 weeks but we tried sex last night and did missionary for a while, it felt good, but still didnt feel like i was going to release, then doggy came, and same thing, went at it with what felt like ages and was enjoyable, but didnt feel like i was going to cum ((
With that, she usually flips on to her back and hops on....but she didnt
She said...well that idea didnt work, i was really pissed off. I said well, it was never meant to be a magic solution, and its early days. So i wanted to lie on my back and wank to finish off, but i resisted. I am now home alone and feel like i want to, but im not going to...so where does this leave me? Do i wait another week or 2 of abstaining, or what?

Thanks again for help. I will persist, and try anything