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Hi Psych Forum, first time poster here. Been a lurker for a month or so. I like you people so much for helping me analyze myself by reading posts, childhood stuff mostly. And I say this already: Don't do drugs, especially ones that officials say causes severe psychosis in people.

Well, let me tell about myself: I'm a 26 yo dude from Europe. My job is being a student, but I'm currently on sick-leave. I ...

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I'm new here. There's one thing I like to know your opinion about. There's always a thing that comes between me and girlfriends when it gets serious: it's my past. I don't like to talk about it, but I feel a lot of shame when it comes to it. I don't dare to talk about it. It's groce and it happened more than 20 years ago. I'm afraid of the reaction I'd get, especially ...

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My boyfriend (although at this moment I am not able to call him that) and best friend has recently confessed to me that he is a pedophile. I truly love him and want to do all that I can to help him, but I'm having trouble. I believe I am the only person who knows, so the burden of this is weighing down on me. I don't want to betray his trust... however, ...

Hello all. Recently I have been trying to "accept" my sexual problem of pedophilia. I was told by a therapist that it was OCD, but I do think I genuinely have a problem finding pre-teen girls appealing (unfortunately) and I think my OCD intensifies my distress. Anyway, about the awkward behavior:

In public I can't seem to maintain a calm demeanor due to how ashamed I feel about my thoughts. When I get a thought ...

do you think has some sexual interest in children? Maybe i'm in denial here, but I think a lot of people will lie about any interest regarding adolescent children, and they are certainly lieing if they say they have never had a fleeting thought about a teenager. What sets these thoughts apart from normal sexual thoughts is that they are inappropriate. I guess what i'm getting at is, "are some of my thoughts more normal ...

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I'm tired of crying to myself all day, and staying in my house like a hermit. I can't take the pain of being a pedophile. I have never touched an innocent child, and never will. However, the thoughts hurt me so bad. I feel evil when I see a little girl and enjoy what I see. (although I don't stare) This is hell.

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A father whose upbringing of his daughter consists of teaching that girl to regularly perform sexual services for him.

The selfish pedophiles, those that advocate "child love", would call this "family love". And I know, because I've been to a couple of such forums.

A mother, in love with a pedophile, "shares" her daughter with her lover and has sex with both to please her lover.

Because, according to childlovers, the fact that ...