any virgins on here

I'm 32 and never had sex. I think the meds ruined my libido and I am too old now

I cant imagine sleeping with a girl my age because most of them had kids and just aren't the same down there. (meaning vaginas)

Its just how does a 33 year old man have sex with a women... you usually do that in your early 20s.

It kind of embarrasses me and makes me very socially withdrawn.

I’m 25 and a half and still a virgin too. I’m embarrassed for being one myself as well.

I'm 33, and a virgin. I can say for sure you aren't too old. This is I came to accept myself recently. Don't forget, girls tend to prefer men older than them. It's entirely possible you can find a girl in her mid 20s.

I've heard of some men getting over similar situations by essentially lying. They would say it's been a few years and I'm rusty as opposed to it's my first time. This assuming you managed to get a girl that far.

Maybe someone who overcame it can chime in, because I could use the advice too.

Having good friends who know girls helps.

I was alone (and virginal as far as girls go, subject to memory), until I was tired of it; then I wasn't. And I was older than 33.
Helps to have friends who can set you up- but one thing is to not worry about 'getting some', thing to do is be oneself, be ready for rejection and have your mind made up that it won't bother you when it happens. I think the thing is to not try to have sex, just get out there and date, and the sex will take care of yourself as long as you don't imitate a deer in the headlights when that moment gets there.

And I'll tell you: if you have thought about it and thought about it and thought about it, it's liable to be slightly anticlimactic. The earth doesn't move or anything like that. Don't overthink it.

I do recall feeling very bashful immediately upon completion, so expect that.

Do you have any recommendations for those of us with no friends? I don't have any, and I struggle to even comprehend the concept of friendship.

I don't really know what to say, no.

I'm not sure what there is to comprehend about friendship. I don't have many, but I've had a few over the years.

I'm not a virgin but honestly that's a not something people who matter will frown upon. No women / man in their right mind would shame someone for being a virgin if they were worth your time. They may be taken back and a little shocked and it may make them laugh a little but if they're a decently developed individual they will be laughing with you and just give you a little tease and then resume your normal relationship.

I have had sex with women who are not virgins that may as well have been. When you find someone worth your while, you will both grow together sexually and develop together. Don't be afraid or concerned, everything good comes from stepping outside of our comfort zone and embracing change. Focus on the quality of a person you are and that's all that she/he will see.