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I am a 20-year-old male with a bondage fetish and an overall affinity for BDSM. I have considered consulting with a female therapist not necessarily for treatment but general discussion of my interest. But is it taboo or unethical or boundary violating to discuss and describe with a female therapist my sexual fantasies?

I also want to know if the following would be possible: Part of my bondage fetish is my attraction to gags and ...

I'm new to being submissive. I was always comfortable being dominant if that sort of power exchange happened. Recently I met a Domme online and she seemed perfect-except she wouldn't answer any of my questions. I never saw a picture. Then she began talking about me purchasing a "training kit" which threw up red flags for me, and at this point I threw the BS flag and pulled out.

I didn't feel any trust was ...

As per the pink notice at the top of the forum. This part of the forum. Along with Paraphilias and Fetishes. Is going to be closing next month. At that point, these topics will no longer be up for discussion anywhere at PsychForums.

This isn't a negotiable decision. But it is a great shame, and I know these forums are going to be missed by many people here. Personally, I've learnt a huge amount from ...

Ok, so recently I have started talking to someone and I am seriously considering entering into a D/s type of relationship with him. He is a very rich, very public figure in my community and because of this the relationship will need to be kept secret. I am quite aware that this would never be able to go beyond what it is. We are on complete opposite ends of the spectrum in our everyday lives. ...

Hello there I have a question I would like to ask.

I have had BDSM fantasies for a long time now, and they became stronger than ever, I wish to be controlled and submitted but I am afraid to open this topic to my partner. I've been in a nine year relationship which is pretty much what you call Vanilla, however I have strong desires for him to dominate me. I am afraid to introduce ...

Hi,

Where can I find a D/S contract, something comprehensive like the one in 50 Shades or even something better? Or is there anyone who can send me a copy that I can use?

Thank you.

Ok, so I'm a 19 year old college student who recently just got out of a long term relationship with a woman who I had a crush on since high school, let's call her Beth so as to keep her identity hidden.

At age 15 my so called friends were on my laptop and found my history, it had lots of BDSM related stuff and they took pictures and spread them around school, It was ...

Hello,

I am in my first D/s relationship that is slowly spreading beyond the bedroom into other areas of life. I like it. I enjoy following rules, pleasing and being dominated. I feel protected, taken care of, and that I found who I am. On some days that is. On other days I resent doing my tasks. I recently skipped doing what I was told to because I did not feel like it. Then a ...

I will be as brief as possible; i really need advice from a happy masochist or a psychologist.

Ever since I hit puberty I have been aroused by being dominated. It started off watching videos of girls wrestling guys, progressed to facesetting, then to slavery, ballbusting and total humiliation. I had hook ups with girls my age but never was interested in sex because the idea of penetration just never turned me on. The first ...

So I'm an alter in a DID system who's been severely deprived in the sex department. Personally, I love it kinky, and lately I've been SO frustrated. All I want right now is to find someone to dominate me, fill me up, degrade me, use me, make me sore. But finding random hookups in the area is really hard as it is, let alone where we live because it's so rural. I'm getting frantic here, ...