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I am very much a submissive lady. I enjoy the 'play' that the BDSM world offers. However, I am independent and survive on my own. I crave a man to desire me to the point of 'taking me' however, am I just a lady with fantasies or would I be good with a Dom?

I met my dom around ten months ago and we hit it off when we first met after two months he even said that he felt a connection towards me unlike past relationships but he did state clearly that our relationship was purely just dom/sub.

I accepted that, but it's just lately I felt like emotionally we've gone backwards and I feel confused and lonely sometimes. I don't know why but a month ago he ...

I find it hard to breathe, as if I'm almost suffocating, when I'm spoken to dominantly. For much of the time, I have to take deep breaths. I am a submissive. Has anyone else experienced this or could explain what it is?
Should I take this to another board?

I want to apologise in advance for the long essay:

I have been in the BDSM-community for a few years now, always as a sub. On the side, I started training myself as a Domme by attending various workshops, getting mentored, etc. When I finally started feeling confident enough, I started Switching. A few months ago, I finally got myself a submissive.

I am a lesbian, but I have always just played with men. I ...

Those mild fake INTP BDSM fukers ruin the scene for the real sadists by their care bear nazi regime. Safe, dull and non-interesting, stick it all up my ass.
Standing in colored saran wrap pussy whipping for hours is not interesting at all. I need a real masochist, not a dominating guy telling me how to lightly whip him or how to perform emotional sadism on him. I want to inflict destruction, pain, horror and ...

Is it harmless to keep ones breath for so long those dots appear? And how can i get rid of them asap, i got them under, over, and on the sides of my eyes, completely covered.

I have a situAtion in which I have just recently entered into where I have become quite submissive to a friend of mine who also happens to be a coworker. Now I have a girlfriend and son whom I love, however I can't stop my submissive actions when I'm around my friend. Now from the conversations that we have had over the past 4 maybe 5 months we have exstablished that we are both into ...

I just typed out a long post with as much information as possible with as little information as I have, and lost it all so I'm going to try and break this down a little better.

I recently got back together with the mother of my child. We were split up for 10 years, during which time I was married to 1 woman. She however had been with several men over the last 10 years. ...

Hello all,

I still find the concept of discipline a bit nebulous. I've seen it debated fiercely in other places and I'm wondering what everyone's thoughts are here. I am still very new to BDSM, so forgive me if I sound ignorant, and please feel free to correct any misconceptions that I have. :)

So obviously, in traditional BDSM, there are "scenes" in which the Dom tops ...

So I'm in my first dom/sub relationship. It feels pretty natural, honestly. Something I feel kinda weird about in hindsight is that while I'm a girl, my sub calls me "daddy" which we both like (and I call him my good boy in return). I guess I'm just kinda looking for affirmation and advice? I can't find anything similar to the daddy dom for girls. I'd also sort of like to find any good resources ...