I've been w/ a guy for 2 yrs & have never felt such happiness, then pain & confusion, back & forth..... but not sure if he's bpd or what, maybe just narcisstic?? Please tell me what you think. We're middle aged by the way. He frequently talks down to me, & my self confidence has suffered. If I call him on it, he usually says he was joking, to which I usually reply that jokes ...