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I want to be touched...

does anyone know what I mean? I just long for some sort of physical touch. And yet I don't want anyone to know that. People try and touch me, hug me, I shy away "Don't touch me!" But secretly I want to snuggle with someone at night :(
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Passive Aggression

Hi,

Does anyone know of a form of anxiety that causes an unwilliness to spend money. Physical sickness can arise from overdoing the budget or spending a lot on a family holiday etc. Also the enjoyment of saving and collecting money in the bank for no particular reason. Eg. Would rather eat a stale mouldy loaf of bread than eat a spectacular loaf of bread from a very expensive French bakery, even if the bread ...
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After 33 years I've finally figured myself out

Just out of curiosity, I did an online personality disorder quiz the other day, and the results were heavily skewed towards APD. I must say I was not entirely surprised. I've always known that I prefer not to be around other people, but that just quiz result clinched it for me.

I did some Googling and ended up at this site. I've been reading forum posts for hours and can't believe how much I can ...
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seeking therapy

With therapy, will a local counsellor do, or will I have to see some really specialised person? I can't drive yet, so I can't just take off anytime I want, and the only freedom I have as a 17 year old is uni. I don't want to approach the uni counsellors if they are not able to help me adequately, which I fear may be the case since AvPD doesn't seem to be very well ...
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First time here

Hello, I've been reading about Avoidant Personality Disorder and social anxiety type stuff a bit for during the last couple days. I think I may fall under the avoidant personality but my knowledge isn't too far extending. I'll tell some of my characteristics and yes I am considering some kind of help, I'm just unsure if I'm exaggerating my condition or not. Here are some pointers

- I am very self-conscious, I will have a ...
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Hi, I'm new here....

Hi everyone,
I'm so glad I found this group. I have been AvPD for as long as I can remember but didn't really know it until recently. Well, I knew what I was, but I didn't know there was a name for it. I have always thought that I was just wacko and didn't know there were other people out there like me. What a relief! I have so many questions. Is there any hope ...
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avoidant or not?

Hi everyone-

I brought up avoidant personality to my therapist and she never really said if she thought I was or not. Then she left for the rest of the summer so... I'm wondering what you guys think.

I just don't like people. It's not that I don't want to, I just don't see anything in common with myself and others. I avoid the phone when it rings, I run the opposite direction from someone ...
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living in a shell

My shell...its safe but its hell.
I so want to go out and have fun...but I just cant.
Im 22 years old, never been to a bar, never a club...I live a lla lone and have only one friend who I only talk to by letters.

My bulimia is out of contorl which compunds my issues.
I feel so alone, and yet so surrounded and trapped.

I cant join the groups, fear speaking to anyone...the ...
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AvPD without any physical anxiety symptoms

I'm very convinced that I have AvPD but I don't suffer any physical anxiety symptoms such as panic attacks, butteflies in tummy, etc. I just get majorly stressed and worried, that's all. Is anyone else like that?
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Weird?

i dunno whether other ppl feel this way but i find many 'normal' ppl pretty boring, fickle and too concerned with sticking to rules. If i wasn't so bloody avoidant, id walk around singing everyday, be happy and just live life -
Everybody i know classifies me as weird bcos i have a weird imagination, im overconsiderate, say the wrong thing, like being alone and am always rly curious about other ppl & care about ...
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