What the -Hell- does -The Answer is Blowing in the Wind- mean to human beings with mental illness etc.? Many years ago when I first started to work at the mental health rehabilitation work facility in northern New Jersey USA, I was in the learning mode as to clients with mental illness and addictions and physical disabilities etc.. I had learned a lot from upper management in dealing with human beings with various problems until the day a counselor who I respected told me to -Stop- being kind to the clients as this was interfering with their program of recovery. Slowly this wall of professional behaviour started to be seen for what it was, self preservation of their jobs. Another time in the beginning a client who was a supposed -Kung Fu- expert or whatever started to act out in the court yard and the other clients ran from this guy with -Fear- on their faces. I quickly got everybody safely in the building and got a upper management staff member to help take care of this client, and for this action of protecting the clients I was reprimanded for not going through proper channels.

I could list dozens of examples of the wellfare of clients being second fiddle to the mental health bureaucratic system, how about clients allowed to stay outdoors in over 100 degree temperatures in the shade and over 150 degrees in the sun. When I asked the clients to -Please- come inside into the A/C I was told to stop harassing them, they could stay outside if that's what they wanted. How about clients that were starving and or hungry at the end of every month because they had used up all their money and were waiting for their monthly welfare checks. I was giving bags of grocery food out of the trunk of my car to help them at my own expense, I was told to stop helping them at the end of the month they would have to go hungry or budget their money to last the whole month.

How about their were sexual predators waiting outside our mental health facility waiting to pounce on any -Single- woman walking to the bus stop by herself, when I tried to organize women to only walk in pairs or groups to the bus stops etc.. I was told to stop because this would alarm the clients to how dangerous it was outside our mental health facility. Let's talk about allowing clients who were predators inside of our facility and were allowed to prey on innocent clients by borrowing money etc. etc. etc. from them and not paying it back etc. because they were protected by upper management. Some upper management had a -GOD- complex which meant that they could -Cure- any clients they deemed curable, numerous clients quit the program or had nervous breakdowns or committed -Suicide- because these predators were allowed at our mental health facility.

The answer is blowing in the wind which means that -You- will never see any good results come out of the mental health bureaucracy, because they only care about their jobs and if they -Cure- you they are out of a job....

-WHAT IF- what do -You- have too loose? Now I have covered in my past posts -WHY- I think anybody can be helped and maybe cured of various mental disorders etc. and diseases such as diabetes and cancer etc... I am so sure of myself and what I saw and heard and researched etc. that it has never been done before by anybody, anywhere etc.. If -YOU- try to create an -Atmosphere of Kindness and Laughter and Happiness and Caring and Empathy and Love and Trust and Humanity etc., part of the time at first -You- or your caregiver will see improvement immediately...

Now here is the easy part and the difficult part and only -YOU- can prove me right or wrong. -YOU- have to find a way to start doing what I have suggested and see if my ideas work or don't work. Give it a try for 30 days and see what happens, that is how sure I am that things will improve for everybody that -YOU- will continue this -Atmosphere of Kindness-...

The easy part is duplicating what we had at this Mental Health Rehabilitation Facility (FH) in Northern New Jersey USA. The group setting made it easy to create this -Atmosphere of Kindness Etc.- but -NO- mental health facility will tolerate this type of program because they will be put out of business over time. -NOW- here is the hard part putting together a Kindness Program etc. for an -INDIVIDUAL- person living at home. I had hoped to get imput from -YOU- so that together we could put together a program of -Kindness- etc. that would work for -YOU- individually or could be implemented by a loving -Caregiver-...

-WHAT IF- WHAT DO YOU HAVE TOO LOOSE-?-... I FIND IT MIND BOGGLING THAT -YOU- OR YOUR -CAREGIVER- WILL NOT TRY TO HEAL YOURSELF.... (send private message for contact info)

Let's talk about the possible reasons why -Your- brain and or body will change for the -Better- if you try to fix what ails -You-. As my past posts on this -Blog- have said, some kind of -Miracles- were happening at this mental health rehabilitation facility (FH) in New Jersey USA. I AM NOT A PROFESSIONAL NOR DO I WANT ANYBODY TO THINK I AM ONE, that being said I am a very good -Observer- of people and everything that I am posting is for your benefit....

Now let's get into the meat and potatoes of why our bodies can -Heal- themselves most of the time, now since I have said numerous times. I AM NOT AN EXPERT OR A SCIENTIST OR A SCHOLAR OR A MEDICAL PRACTITIONER ETC... The following statements are my opinion only and if -You- want to nit pick them to death then -You- are missing the big picture, that I have been looking for answers and this is the best so far that I have been able to do. -IF- you can give a better idea or answer etc. then please feel free to contact me at EDITED BY MODERATOR

There are numerous -"FEEL GOOD"- chemicals in our brains and bodies etc. and these feel good chemicals -TEMPORALLY- make us feel great. These chemicals are triggered by us when we do certain things such as, Laughter and Caring and Empathy and Love and Sex and Masturbation and Orgasm and Meditation and Trust and Sunshine and Chocolate and Happiness etc. etc. etc... Now their are other feel good chemicals which are frowned on by society such as Alcohol and Smoking and Pornography and Caffine and Sugar etc. etc. etc...

-NOW- here comes the good part, all of the above and more -ONLY- give us a -TEMPORARY- feel good fix most of the time. WHAT would happen if we could have these feel good chemicals such as Serotonin and Dopamine and Endorphins and Norepinephrine etc. etc. etc., all the time (Full Time) everyday, day in and day out, all day long... -YOU- say impossible and I say -POSSIBLE- because we did it without even knowing it...

When I started to be -KIND- etc. to the clients and did this almost full time to them, it started to snowball over time into an -ATMOSPHERE OF KINDNESS ETC.-... The words -Trust- and -Empathy- and -Respect- and -Caring- and -Humanity- etc. etc. etc., have real meaning to these people because almost everybody with problems is considered a -Pariah- by family and society etc... (Please save the outrage over using this word, the clients gave me this expression.)

ONE person (ME) and other support staff liked what we saw when somebody really, really, really cared about the clients, NOT the bureaucratic caring that the management told everybody they must do. So almost all the support staff looked out for the clients and then another -Miracle- started to happen over time, clients looked out for each other and that's when my eyes really opened in amazement... The clients knew when another client was in trouble and they went to somebody they trusted would help them. Most of the time they regulated themselves with friends advice they could trust, that's when -ALL- the fights and confrontations and acting out and throwing furniture etc. started to -Stop-...

-Miracles- started to come in droves, clients were keeping track of each other on the outside of our facility, home life was settling down for these people, no more -SUICIDES- (Violent & Passive) was happening. This I found out later was the most upsetting to these clients, -Suicide- was their only option after a lifetime of pain and suffering and false hope... Why this upset clients the most is because they -ALL- believed in -GOD- and if they committed -Suicide- they would burn in -HELL- forever, what an end to a lifetime of pain and suffering and false hope....

NOW LET'S GET BACK TO -CONTINUOUS FULL TIME- FEEL GOOD CHEMICALS TELLING OUR BODIES TO IGNORE THE BAD VOICES IN OUR HEADS AND THE BAD FEELINGS THAT ANTIPSYCHOTIC DRUGS HAVE AS A SIDE AFFECT. HOW ABOUT THOUGHTS OF -SUICIDE- BEING REPLACED BY FEEL GOOD THOUGHTS ETC. ETC. ETC... ALL THIS AND MORE CAN...

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-YOU- have not completely understood what I have said with my previous posts, especially my last post which offered -YOU- a way to help yourself and or a loved one. What do I mean,? If -YOU- and or your loved one take the bull by the horns and or do something or anything -YOU- will get better, live longer and or control your mental illness and or reduce your suffering and pain etc...

-YOU- have to understand that what I saw and heard at this mental health rehabilitation work facility in New Jersey USA was a -Miracle- created and run by the clients themselves. They -REWIRED- their own brains and bodies by creating an -Atmosphere of Kindness and Humanity and Empathy and Laughter and Love and Caring and Watching out for each other etc-....

-YOU- have a right to do nothing and or to continue to suffer with pain and false hope etc. or -YOU- can get off your backsides and do what hundreds of clients and their families did at this mental health facility and make -LIFE- bearable for -EVERYBODY-. -YOU- or your loved one at least can try and -REWIRE- your brains and or bodies by repeating over and over and over again with -POSITIVE- thinking all day long, everyday into the future.

-YOU- can make your lives a hundred times better by being -Positive- all day long, a 100% of the time or as close to a hundred percent of the time as -YOU- and or your loved one can get. -YOU- do not need a manual and or a program to be -Positive- just a -Computer- and find sites with suggestions on how to be -Positive and Kind and Laughter and Love and Caring and Empathy etc.-....

We only had an -Atmosphere of Kindness etc.- in about 5% to 10% of the -Total- time in a clients life and this carried over to about 25% of their lives, let me repeat this. The -Total- time that this -Atmosphere of Love and Laughter and Empathy and Caring etc.- was only a small amount of a clients life. The results were astonishing, -No Fights- and -No Acting Out- and -NO Verbal Confrontations- and -No Screaming- and -No Throwing Furniture- etc. etc. etc...

The really, really big success story was there was no more -SUICIDES- VIOLENT & PASSIVE of any kind which terrified the clients because they knew that 90% of clients with serious mental illness were going to -Kill- themselves from all the pain and suffering and false hope etc.... I tried to get the -VA- administration to look at my research and help all our -Military Veterans- but they have a bureaucracy as useless as the mental health bureaucracy. It's a shame because the -VA- has the same type of setup as the mental health rehabilitation facility in New Jersey USA. -You- could create the same -Almosphere of Kindness etc.- at our -VA- facilities throughtout the United States-, it is easier and more cost effective to let our -Military Veterans- blow their brains out in front of their children...

This mental health rehabilitation facility in New Jersey USA had numerious other clients with other ailments besides mental illness and we saw improvements in these clients with only 5% to 10% of their time being subjected to an -Atmosphere of Kindness etc.-. We saw improvements in -Autistic- adults and -Addictions- and -Developmental- and -Physical Handicaps- etc. etc. etc...

-WE- will never know because everybody wants a simple cure in a -Pill- form or other scientific research etc., to -Hell- with stories like -Lorenzo's Oil- etc.. We also saw clients with -Cancer- and -Diabetes- and -Lung- diseases etc. get better and clients with mental illness using less severe medications etc...

The best part of my story is that I tried to contact New Jersey State officals and Military Veterans Affairs etc. about my findings and I was laid off for my effort and have since retired so that I could waste my time and money trying to -HELP- you....

PS. here is a interesting dilemma, how would -YOU- solve my problem? Since I saw first hand and documented the results and possabilities of what I saw, how do I let -Sick- people who are fighting...

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I WILL START AT THE BEGINNING SO THAT -YOU- CAN UNDERSTAND HOW AND WHY I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION. THAT IT IS POSSIBLE TO -HELP- AND OR -CURE- HUMAN BEINGS WITH MENTAL ILLNESS AND MENTAL DISORDERS (AUTISM) AND DISABILITIES AND ADDICTIONS AND DISEASES SUCH AS CANCER AND LEUKEMIA AND DIABETES ETC., HOW ABOUT ALZHEIMER'S AND DEMENTIA ETC. ETC. ETC...

I worked at *Edited* (Mental Health Rehabilitation Facility) for almost four years and in that time until I was laid off, we had helped many different groups of people with different types of mental health issues, developmental, physical handicaps and addiction problems etc.. In this environment of controlled -Chaos- I was hired to step in between clients or stop clients who were acting out or going into psychois or were being violent or confrontational etc., to others or themselves etc..

THIS WAS HAPPENING EVERYDAY, MANY TIMES A DAY ALL WEEK LONG AT THIS FACILITY AND AT THE CLIENTS HOMES AMONG THEIR FAMILIES ETC.. *Edited* WAS ONE OF THE BETTER MENTAL FACILITIES AT LEAST THEY TRIED TO CONTROL THE -CHAOS-...

In this environment a -Single Employee- who is hard working and is kind and caring and sensitive and has empathy, can make a big difference in how we treat clients and people in general. An employee who works as support staff has been able to gain the trust of the clients and people in this chaotic environment, -TRUST- is the key to mental health and addiction problems.

I have proven that an employee can multi task over forty different jobs for various departments at *Edited* as a worker, supervisor and consultant (Support Staff) and still have time for personal observations and interaction with clients and families. ( A list of job descriptions will be added at the end) I have observed and interacted with with various support groups that meet at night and on weekends, on my own personal time. These parents, grandparents, sibilings, caregivers, friends and clients themselves have given me their frustrations, anxiety, uncertainty and most of all their insight in dealing with mental illness and addiction and the mental health bureaucracy. The following is an ongoing list of workshops, meetings, observations and publications etc.,

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BELOW IS A LIST OF JOBS I DID AT *Edited* USA (I LIKE TO BE KEPT BUSY, SO I KEPT ASKING FOR MORE JOBS)...

1. Drive all company vehicles safely, with no accidents, in all types of weather.

2. Schedule all repairs and maintenance of ten company vehicles.

3. Diagnose repairs to all company vehicles, saving thousands of dollars in repairs.

4. Keep detailed records of all, maintenance schedules and suggested vehicle repairs.

5. Maintain and fix all company vehicles with my extensive personal tools and equipment.
Jump start and charge batteries, clean battery terminals, change flat tires, check and fill all vehicles tire pressure. Check air filters and all fluid levels, etc. etc.. Fixing many minor problems, saving the company time and money.

6. Mobil repair unit, used in fixing vehicles that have broken down on the road.

7. Using my past experiences and knowledge in running repair garages for years, has given me insight in -Diagnostic Repairs- to company vehicles.

8. Gathering information on purchasing new vans and trucks with recommendations to CEO.

9. Helping staff and clients diagnose and fix their private cars and help with purchasing new vehicles.

10. Load and unload vehicles in the loading dock area as a worker and or supervisor.

11. Supervise and help the loading of cardboard for recycling plant, this working environment is extremely dangerous when unloading the cardboard at the plant making sure the client helper is safe.

12. Assist in production in the workshop area as a worker and a supervisor.

13. Supervise quality control and assembly of products in the workshop.

14. Organize and maintain a second warehouse in a difficult and dangerous environment.

15. Load and unload tractor trailors and box trucks and make room...

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