Maybe I can get -You- to try my ideas that will help -You-, if you understand how it all came about... Six years ago I was hired as a -Non- professional staff member at a top mental health rehabilitation work facility in northeast New Jersey USA. I was hired to try and stop -Clients- from confrontations and hurting each other etc. and or themselves plus do be a jack of all trades if there was any time left over... Now this was very important to my future -Observations- as I was about too learn, because I liked to be kept busy I kept on asking for new jobs and or responsiabilities as time went on. They gave me the responsibility of training people for outside work etc. (Human beings with Mental illness and mental disorders and physical handicaps and addictions etc. etc. etc..) and the running of a seperate warehouse and a brand new food kitchen for the homeless etc. etc. etc...
-NOW- why this was important is that these people came to -Trust- me and I came to really -Trust- them with all their problems, I had to make sure they did not get hurt physically or mentally while in my care. This -Trust- allowed me to really see them and to really hear them etc. like they -NEVER- never, never let anybody including their parents and family and friends etc. and especially the mental health professionals see them or hear their inner most thoughts... When I started to realize after a coulpe of years that they were slowly allowing me into their world and they -Trusted- me by talking to me about their inner most thoughts etc.. This was a world that few people ever heard of or realized even existed but was their world of -Chaos- every living moment of their lives...