Does this happen to anyone regularly? I made a previous post about blaming yourself for other peoples issues...but now I am asking if anyone feels like no matter what they do, if something doesn't go the right way, do you always say..."If I was better, smarter, more competent, less neurotic, better looking, sexier, things would work out my way?" I know I have a hard time realizing there are alot of prettier, smarter, and more ...