Right, this is going to be a novel, sorry for that. Also, for BPDs here, no offence meant.
I am a non, currently in 4 month relationship with a girl with BPD. She also has a couple of other F's slapped in front of her name. She is undergoing therapy, taking meds and is generally pretty aware of her condition, as much as it is possible, I suppose. Also full of unfounded insecurities, about her ...