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I want to die. I love him so much. My boyfriend left me again. Every time we fight, he leaves. Shuts off his phone for days... I can't take it. I love him so much it's disgusting. I don't mean to take anything out on him, I really don't. And I try hard for him because he's so good to me. My past relationships were all filled with abuse on both sides, but with him ...

When I was 7 and a 1/2, me and my family moved from Massachusetts all the way to North Carolina. That was almost 6 years ago. All of those years, I felt a yearning for something, like someone or something wasn't there. Yes, I am just about 13 now, but that doesn't matter. I realized within the last year what was missing. My relatives. Before I moved, we would go to my Grandma's house at ...

Recently, this subject catches my attention. Maybe it is right time to address this issue and healing myself.

I feel my mother have some BPD trend although she never got diagnosed.When I was small, my mother's mood swing very largely, She would use abusive language toward us, sometimes goes physical punishment. My mother is very judgmental also. I need to perform good in school to get her love, she judge people by superficial qualities, Now ...

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I very recently got diagnosed by BPD, yesterday in fact and feel utterly distraught. In some ways I'm relieved, it explains why I have been the way I have for the last 10 years or so, sabotaging relationships, endless poor relations with family members through constant shouting and arguing, being constantly irritable so on and so forth. I'm struggling to come to terms with it. I'm worried about stigma ...

Because I have BPD, abandonment is incredibly painful for me.

Two weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me. It was the most painful experience I've ever endured because of the details of our relationship and what happened. I won't get into too much detail, but basically we seemed to have a very happy relationship, I had avoided most of the mistakes I had made in others, he told me constantly that he loved me ...

A bad encounter with a bpd female left me jobless, homeless, and without any direction in life.

I just wonder if youve ever done this to someone and was it on purpose?

Tell me please.

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This is the first forum that I was invited to moderate, so this is the first place that I'm saying good-bye. Something very good happened to me today, but in the future it will require most of my time and energy. It would be unfair for me to try and be an effective moderator while most of my attention is directed elsewhere. I'm wishing ...

HI there I am new here. I read a book about BPD, and I find I fit one of character when I was teenage and early adulthood, That's emotional unsuitability, However, slowly I get better and better. other characters I don't fit

Recently I got a flatmate and in close contact with her, I find she is very emotional unstable. you have to be nice to her all time, When I state my point assertively, ...

I am caught in a very complicated situation and don't know where else to turn. My family and I are convinced that my sister has BPD. Our family has been torn apart by her behavior and actions and we are desperate for help. Problem is we don't know how to approach her with our concerns and offer her help. We don't want conflict but feel it may be unavoidable. Any suggestions to get the ball ...