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I thought to open this thread so we can list "magical thinking" behaviors. I've seen some confusion about this and have also seen NoNs conjur up various conspiracy theories to be behind actions that are really magical thinking.

I can remember a few mine so I'll list them, I hope other narcs will provide more examples

1. Avoiding the dentist like the plague. I have special teeth, they will not go bad. When they do, ...

Hey everyone.. I have been reading the posts on here and thought I would share my current adventures with a Narc.

About a month or so ago, an old bf of mine sent me a friend request on FB. I hadn't seen or heard from him in 30 years. The break up wasn't by us but because of outside parental interference by my mom.

Anyway, I accepted the request and then took that time to ...

Hello all,
For all of you who don't know me on this forum I have recently come to terms with my narcissism. My psychologist described it as 'Malignant Narcissism'. I was just wondering if there's any connections between pathological narcissism and sadistic tendencies? By sadistic tendencies I mean the want or even need to hurt people. Emotionally or physically. Currently Iv been taking pleasure in having women fall for me then abusing them emotionally and ...

can being told your gorgeous or handsome your whole life make you narcissist?

Hi. I have a friend who I have a romantic link with. We only communicate online currently for the most part. He started *ostensibly* ignoring me about a month ago but actually doing really hurtful things, and he refuses to block me and I know he likes making me feel uncomfortable because it puts him in control, the fact that I do care about him and have told him I won't stop trying to communicate ...

How Many NPDers does it take to change a light bub?
-None! The bleeding bulb had burnt itself, why should I be blamed? How could that be MY problem?!

How many people with Borderline Personality Disorder does to take to change a light bulb?
- None. He'll just threaten suicide if you don’t change it for him.

How many people with Obsessive-Compulsive personality disorder does to take to change a light bulb?
-Just one. But ...

I myself have a PD. I was involved casually with a Narc for about 2 yrs. at first he handled me like all the others, with a false Prince Charming act, but I think he saw there was something off about me too. After a long while, he treated me almost as an equal. We didn't spend much time together,it was a FWB type thing, but he often referred to me as his longest relationship ...

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summary: I believe narcissism is caused by a belief you know better than your adult caregivers at an early age. Then I got pissed at katana.

Why would a narcissist get into a heavy and deep romantic relationship for months and not tell the other person their real name?

The N. I know will have the other person call him from the vestibule in and go downstairs and pick them up. They have "pet" names for each other too. I know for a fact that for the first 3-4 months the other person only knew the N.'s "fake name." So, I ...

Hello!

I've been wondering if there is a correlation between narcissism and personality type. So I want a bunch of narcissists answering: what are your mbti types? If you don't know, google it and take the test.

Starting with myself, I am an INTJ.