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I am a sub.. I have always been into someone taking control of me, and being there to please another.. I met a Dom and he seemed very kind and we got to know each other and decided to meet up, it all went very well.. Until we left and I went through kind of a drop and haven't heard from him since.. I'm very hesitant to try again and then just disappear like he ...

Hey guys,
So I guess I should just get straight to it. I’ve been curious for a while now about exploring my sexuality. However, the very few I’ve trusted enough to talk about this to have all said I ought to have a ‘normal’ or ‘vanilla’ relationship first. Just to clarify I am a virgin though I’m twenty two which is pretty shameful in itself I know. I haven’t really had a serious relationship and ...

Hello everyone...
I am Wren. I am a 31 year old mother of three...and I need/would appreciate any advice/input/feedback anyone would like to provide to me. I think that I should provide a couple of quick background things that I feel are very pertinent to my post... and I apologize in advance...I have a feeling this will run long, despite my best attempts to keep it short and simple.

When I was 18 months old, ...

So, today, as I was walking sown the hallways of my school, I noticed something a little unexpected. I looked up on my crush's neck... And she had a choker.
This, as soon as I saw it, turned me on immediately. We talked for a bit, like any other day, but I couldn't get out of my mind the little bad-quality leather that hugged her neck tightly.
Me, being foreign to BDSM, was a little ...

Hello all, first post here.

I have been looking for a forum where I can get advice for my kinky/BDSM relationship.
In short, I am currently with a pretty submissive GF accepting all kinds of kinky and BDSM play and I would like to know if she could become a slave and if so, what the best method is to make her a slave.
I will now give as much background information as I can. ...

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I've just discovered that I am a masochist and I have a question.

I've done a test on BDSM and the test result shown that I am 79% masochist, 70% submissive, 65% vanilla, 60% switch and 35% dominant. I am quite sure about the part that I am a masochist as I gave it a try and I really really enjoy it. It is the best experience I ever have in my sex ...

So, I'm brand new to the BDSM lifestyle/community. I'm also still a virgin. I don't know if I even have the right to say I'm into BDSM when I'm a virgin, but it's something I'm very interested in. I've done a fair amount of research on BDSM and want to start exploring it. I've been with this guy for 6 months, but he has no idea I want to explore this kind of thing. As ...

Hi all, new to the forums and ISO help because I'm clueless as to what I am doing and not sure how I am actually feeling about it.

Within the last 3 weeks I have entered into a pretty serious relationship with a woman that I adore more than I could ever explain here, and have been wanting to be with her for quite some time now. The first two weeks were pretty standard, getting ...

Hi all, first post. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

First let me say I'm not proud of any of this. I've done some things lately that I'm ashamed of. I fancy myself a decent, honest, caring person, and my behavior is not in line with that. This is the first time in my life I've ever been dishonest in this way in a relationship. Up until now it's something I could swear on my ...

I really want to be the dominant one more often in the relationship, my partner wants me to as well, but I have a hard time struggling with it. I feel conflicted, a part of me wants to let this side of myself come out and another part of me judges me for it. I'm one of those types of people that manages to stay calm when everyone else is angry, so showing this really ...