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A bit of background, in case it's helpful. I'm a nineteen-year-old lesbian, and I've never been in anything that I'd call a real relationship. I am a sexual masochist. I've come to terms with that some time ago, and while I sometimes wish it could be otherwise, I'm mostly all right with that.

Where I run into problems is dealing with the fact that I'm emotionally masochistic as well. The part that terrifies me most ...

Dear Reader,

I am a male who will soon be eighteen years of age and I admit that I have a ladies foot fetish. Last night (Monday, July 23, 2007) I just came out to my friends. (One girl felt somewhat embarrassed.) It was not easy. I was a little hyper that night because I forgot to take my medication for ADD/ADHD.

When I was about in fourth grade, I noticed that I would always ...

As suggested on another board, I'm going to split up my large topic into smaller pieces. The aspect I am most keen on for comments is the aspects of fetishes, what makes them up. Comments and feedback welcomed and appreciated, even negative ones


Common aspects of fetishes

There are many, many different fetishes out there, more no doubt than we could ever be aware of. But they tend to share common components with other fetishes. ...

This happened this morning. I'm a 25 year old male and I've had an obsession with my female friend for sometime now. Not just sexual, but also emotional. This weekend, she came to visit and was staying at my place in a spare room. On friday, I had thoughts of devising someway to peep on her, but I was able to overcome those feelings and felt good that I wasn't going to do that. We ...

I am 35 a father of two. My first son was born and I never felt attracted to him but my youngest son is now 2 years old and I just cant shake thoughts of sexual attraction to him... like I'm not really dying to do something I've got it under control but I can't help fantasizing.

Is it normal for fathers to have those kind of thoughts? They just come in a flash when ...

Last one year I noticed I am looking at people's crotch male or female. I try to control still my eyes goes there. This is giving me all type of problems. Now I am getting scared of social gatherings. I am hetro sexual and married. StilL My eyes are going to males and also females. Any advice and help is greatly appreciated. Can I go to psychriatist? what type of doctor is requird. Recently I ...

I'm 17 and have only recently been fantasising of having sexual relations with younger girls (I guess 10, 11 and 12 year-olds).

I don't feel attracted to girls my age or older ones, only the younger ones that are less developed. I honestly don't find it a problem because I know I'll never act on these feelings, but I'd just like some help with it. How to keep my mind off of it and stuff. ...

For a while I have been tempted to fantasize in this manor during masturbation (I am male, if that makes a difference):

My fantasies generally involve myself engaging in sexual acts with girls and women who I have met and/or know to some extent. They also generally take place from a third person perspective, as if I am watching a video of me having sex with a girl rather than witnessing it as I do ...

Is it possible not to be hetrosexual, or homosexual but just a fetishist?

I mean I'm 17 now, and for the most part I've like girls for the most part, even though thinking about "just them" isn't "enough" for . . .

When I first became "active" I found myself liking shirts. I don't really know why, but I think it might go back to when I was about 11 and was staring at some ...

I am seventeen years old. I noticed when I was in fourth grade, I would always be distracted by the teachers' beautiful feet. (My school goes grades 1-12 and in grades six and below all the attractive ladies are teachers there.)


Now with summer coming, almost all the girls in my high school division are wearing sandals. I find myself keeping track on my computer at home when a certain girl wears a certain type ...