Help me with my feet fetish

I am seventeen years old. I noticed when I was in fourth grade, I would always be distracted by the teachers' beautiful feet. (My school goes grades 1-12 and in grades six and below all the attractive ladies are teachers there.)


Now with summer coming, almost all the girls in my high school division are wearing sandals. I find myself keeping track on my computer at home when a certain girl wears a certain type of sandal or shows her feet. I view it as a competition. (i.e. extra points for showing feet out of shoe, extra points if I have a crush on her as well as the foot, and even extra points if she has toenail polish on them.) Yesterday (Thursday, April 26, 2007), I was sitting next to a girl who had lovely feet. I had trouble focusing in on Algebra 2 class. I quickly kep glancing at her feet. (I recall she saying to someone else that I do have a foot fetish, so I hope that I wasn't bothering her.)

I am just worried that I will get in trouble just looking to long at some lady's foot or making it obvious that I am looking at her feet. I will be off on my own to college and I am worried that I will be wraped up in my foot fetish that I will not have time to study.

I do see my school psychologist Dr. D, one-on-one weekly, but I am not comfortable with him. (I have no choice since I am funded by the county.) Also, my other psychologists (Dr. V and Dr. J) with my group at school, she (Dr. V) has beautiful feet. She wears flip-flops a lot. But for my senior year 2007-2008, I might be in a co-ed group. I hope I will be able to have the courage to get this off my chest with this group, still with Dr. V and Dr. J.

Hi there.

I'll tell you what. Your feet fetish sounds just fine. No need to feel concerced I think, unless it causes you some kind of distress.

I would say it is causing some distress already.
I am a fetishist myself. Mostly latex and high heels. And I know how complicated it can be when we get distracted a lot. I find myself looking at every heel on the street, etc.

Some things I think are worth mentioning: I closed into myself about this interest for far too long. Maybe if you can be more open about it, joke a little, etc, it will be easier for you to cope with it.
I was always afraid of what other people might think about it. Well... reactions can be bad indeed, most people are ignorant, and some will just point you out as a freak. The good news is that you are the one who can control this the best. It's all a question of attitude. MOst ladies will enjoy a compliment about their feet. Search yourself to see if it's possible for you to share this with them.
One very important thing is that you find someone, later in life, with whom you can share this interest in a way that you are able to keep a balance between a "vanilla" life and a more fetishy life.

Balance is one keyword here. Fetishes are great if they are kept as "the spice of the relationship". If you let them take control over you, then it starts getting serious.

Read a lot. Search the web and investigate about what you feel. I'm talking about scientific knowledge. Try to stay away from the other websites for the time being.

The most important step you already took it: you think that something might be wrong and you want to work on it.

It took myself too long to do that...