News of Borderline Personality Disorder Forum

I'll be gone Wed, Thursday, Friday and Saturday.

I'm exhausted and stoned from crying so much. I have a stomach virus and am still hungry but I feel queasy.

I'm going on a trip with lack of sleep and a stomach virus.

So everyone have a good week.

The identity confusion is well, confusing.


Disclaimer: I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS.

What if you WANT something to be a certain way but reality keeps hitting you in the face and telling you "No?"!

Reality really ruins any type of labelling or getting a hold of much else. And when people say "find yourself" that makes a person think, oh---categorizing and labeling and identifying. And yet, Buddhism and even to some extent Christianity has ...

IF I am in a good frame of mind and a non BPD is tactful and compassionate, I can deal with the sharing of experience.

I should have said this from the start. When I was 12 it was a psychologist who said that had the borderline and my current psychiatrist has hinted at it by mentioning that my amagdyla is damaged.

Well, I was stupid and took a test online and it showed Borderline, Dependent and Paranoid Personality Disorder were all at 90%.

I know that only a professional can diagnose this, but this really drives me nuts and ...

I re-read the categories of the various types of borderline mother. I saw mainly "waif."

Do I need to educate Richard on these types?

Do I need to have a mutual behavioral contract of fairness?

It is BECAUSE I work the program that I struggle so hard.

One of the diagnosed ones in my life seems to never after being triggered, they cut people that they have been friends with for years out of their life. They told me that they feel relieved after the stress is gone, relieved that they arnt in their life before and doesnt ever talk about them or seem to have any fond memories I guess. I mean surely most people would at least miss someone? This ...

Thought that'd make for an interesting title for a thread!

But, you know how you read about people with mental disorders struggling and trying to recover then this Lightbulb just goes off in their head: they just get it. I'm worried that day won't come for me.

Let me just say this though. I hate who I am. Knowing that, why aren't I changing? Why aren't I truly taking the proper steps to change who ...

I got diagnosed with BPD yesterday after year or therapy and all sorts of different anti depressants, I thought it would put my mind at rest that I'm not just a b**ch and it was more then that but it hasn't and I just can't stop crying and eating! Glad I have found this forum with lots of similar people on but it's just daunting isn't it? Or am I being dramatic?

I was doing some display stuff and some thoughts came to me, so I thought that I would share them:

1. Keep your lifestyle simple. If you are sloppy with laying out clothes, use color groups of stuff that can be mix matched. If you hate hair styling, get a cut, etc.
2. Make humility an everyday goal. Humility without debasing yourself.
3. Make reasonable goals-Make goals which are reasonable.
4. Test limits by taking ...