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Hello BPDers

I'm having a bad day and so I just want to hear what you guys do to perk yourselves up? (no matter how unhealthy -lol)

Thanks lovelies :)

If there’s one aspect of me that remains largely BPD, it’s that I tend to be aloof or non-social until I’m rejected or perceive rejection. At that point I become very hurt and angry to the point where I become a little obsessive-compulsive about the other person. I might Google their name and wonder why they think they’re so much better than me. My initial reaction is to have a “You can’t fire me, I ...

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The reason for this thread is I have recently been diagnosed with BPD and for a while now I have been struggling to maintain any sort of relationship with the guy I am madly in love with, it's been about 14 months now and we are both young (18,19) - recently we have been fighting a lot (more so than usual) and he says that he isn't interested in me sexually and I have burnt ...

Hi,

I have a friend who knows she has emotional issues and has been seeing a psychiatrist about it. Almost positive she was diagnosed with BPD but I try to avoid the subject because she hates talking about it. She seemed to be doing really well did a lot of "first time in my life" things this year. But recently she seemed to have taken a few steps back. Problem is I am one of ...

Who all here actually has BPD?

I'm a guy in my late 20s. I was recently seeing a psychiatrist for a personal reason. When I described my mother's behavior to him, he suggested that she may have some combination of borderline and narcissistic personality disorder. This has been very difficult for me to accept. For one thing, I always thought she was mean, and as crazy as that sounds, it is easier for me to accept that she is mean and ...

Hi guys,

If you remember 6 months ago, I was very active on this forum after I broke up w my ex-gf that was a BPD. It was an intense 2yr relationship that ended just before I graduated college. I gave up a lot for her, and cared about her a lot, so needless to say I was incredibly hurt and frustrated. I often came on here to spill out my thoughts because you are ...

I was curious if any nons here have actually witnessed a Borderline get cured? I mean entirely cured.

I ask because I know of some borderlines who use therapy as just another control tactic and reason for them to persuade you to not call them on their bullsh*t. So, if they split you, gaslight you, emotionally abuse you to death, and you react...they say,

"I'm in therapy. You need to be patient with me and ...

I'm curious as to what over BPDers do when they get impulsive.

I'm very impulsive when it comes to tattoos. Whenever I feel impulsive, I start planning on how to secretly get a tattoo. I have 3 so far. The last two were very impulsive. Some days I regret them. :( Most days I'm in love with them though. I just wish I put more thought into ...