She took on the pity role to paint me as a monster and used that to justify ripping my kids away from me and skip town. It's very sad and extremely frustrating.

I know the truth. She denies it. Irreconcilable differences. I get that. But moving the children out of town to be closer to her family at the expense of damaging their relationship with their father was astronomically selfish in my opinion. The PhD psych report on her which highlighted HPD even stated as clear as day she "risks meeting her own needs at the expense of the children". Even the judge read that report, too, and yet I still get completely f*cked....

There should be a law against either parent leaving town during divorce proceedings to protect kids against mentally disordered injustices like this. The family court's primary goal is supposed to be looking out for the best interests of the children, and yet they accepted the fact she skipped town with our children while ignoring the mountain of evidence I provided showing that it wasn't justified. The system failed yet again. Simply amazing....