I get upset because the little girl next door was crossing

the road on her own when she was only 7 and when she was 6 her mum would cross the road with her but never held her hand. It upsets me because there are these 2 little boys who live down the cul-de-sac opposite our houses and they are aged 5 and 7 and there parents won't let them out of there site and tell them firmly to never ever cross the road on there own and also tell them to stay where they can see them.
When I talk to my mum about this she just screams at me and tells me to go and ask them and says that she dosen't know and dosen't care. And she gets very nasty sometimes and threatens to drag me by the hair round to next door and make me tell them everything I say about them. Or she will scream at me and beat me shouting go on you big fat piece of $#%^ go next door and tell them how shite they are. Or she will walk off really quick singing a tune so she dosen't have to listen to me or answer me. Alot of people have told me how caring I'am but my parents just say are you ###$ caring or caring my arse. And my mum once told me that I wasen't caring I was nothing but a nasty piece or $#%^ and an interfering #####&.
It's so unfair how I have to put up with this nobody else in this world gets called names like this by there own family.
I hate how my mum won't answer me and give her oppion about how these 2 sets of parents treat there kids.
And the mother of the 2 little boys stop them playing with the kid who lives next door to me because she thinks she's too grown up for her age and dosen't want her boys mixing with someone like that. The little girl next door also has no friends because all the other parents hate her and don't want there kids playing with her. And also her parents friends and her Grandparents hate her as well. Her brother hates her. Her parents don't love her.
I just hate how whenever I mention this too my mum she just screams at me in a very pyshcotic way and hits me and runs out the room breaking stuff and slamming doors as she goes.

My dear friend, will you please try to keep one thread open at a time. It is becoming annoying for many users here to deal with your problems across multiple threads. Your threads will just continue to become locked if this same behaviour continues, and for that I apologise.

Kevin

Saturday 6th June, 2006
Thread unlocked as requested.
Peace.

thanks for unlocking this thread

You're welcome. My actions towards you recently have bothered me. I respect you, immensely.

Kevin.

Prima apparizione di Gesù Bambino a Giuseppina Norcia (1947)

Chucky wrote:Prima apparizione di Gesù Bambino a Giuseppina Norcia (1947)

Si.

What is that picture of? Is that a little baby floating away in the air? Or is this another dolphin trick??

why airn't I getting proper answer for this thread?

There is no proper response for this thread. Parents raise their children differently. When I was around 7 or 8 years old, I would be away from the house for hours at a time. I would play in a nearby forest with my friends without any parental supervision. Meanwhile I had friends next door who were 7 and 14 years old, and they weren't allowed to leave their yard.

One method isn't anymore appropriate than the other. Different parents have different ideas on how to raise their children, and it bears no reflection on how much they care for that child.

As to your claim that no one else is treated badly by their own family, that is false. There are people who undergo far more abuse than you or I have experienced. It's unfortunate that you don't get along, but I don't think you do anything to improve your situation.

I wonder if your mother's nastiness is merely frustration. It's hard to deal with someone who constantly obsesses and complains. (And this coming from someone who does just that.)