I get upset because the little girl next door was crossing

my mum tells me I mentaly tortur her all the time

Hi Nightmare, since this purpose of this thread is to give you an outlet regarding your neighbor; perhaps you should use it in lieu of your parents. Whenever you get an urge to talk about the girl next door, come online and write about in here.
In the meantime, you need to find ways to occupy your time. How’s the job search going? Are you filling out applications?

Hi Nightmare, since this purpose of this thread is to give you an outlet regarding your neighbor; perhaps you should use it in lieu of your parents. Whenever you get an urge to talk about the girl next door, come online and write about in here.
In the meantime, you need to find ways to occupy your time. How’s the job search going? Are you filling out applications?
I do come online and just write it on here. Whenever ever something at the school I work at upsets me becuase of seeing a well loved kid I write it on here.

I was upset today because 2 women I work with were talking about how quick it goes when you have kids. It upset me because my mum dosen't talk like that.

nightmareb4christmas wrote:1. I know her mum has had an operation because she told my dad that she has
2. My parents also say it's torcher for them having to listen to me going on about next door
3. I have gone threw times when I don't mention her and when I start again my mum goes bellistic about me starting it up again

That is a hint Nightmare to not discuss it anymore... So come up with other things for you to talk about with your family, it would drive me a bit batty too if I kept hearing this over and over again too ... I think if the situation was reversed you may feel the same way about it.

Also vacuuming at 8 isn't bad, I likely did so many times myself, I'm sure other kids think it's great to be doing a job like that. My 4 year old niece loves to clean she feels so grown up doing it. I also helped clean, dust etc and I thought it was wonderful to help out when I could.

I have to agree some others are saying on here Nightmare... Try to not take what is being said as something negative, but words that are trying to help you to understand things in life.... to perhaps try to change your way of thinking, focusing your thoughts on other things, not the 3 things that are constantly going around.

nightmareb4christmas, can I just say that it's impossible for us to take care of every issue in life. Things will upset us - there's no doubt about that. my mother taught me not to try to help everyone, because then I ended up not helping myself. You seem to focus a lot on other people in your life, my dear, but maybe it's time to start focussing on your own life/problems. You are an incredibly nice person - that's obvious - but we can't be too nice.

Take care as always,
Kevin

also when ever it's a cold day Elen just wears a t'shirt and if she goes outside to play she just puts a jacket on and not a coat

and I hate how her brother has loads of birthday cards that are still up almost a week later because Elen always has her birthday completly ignored

Nightmare, remember what was suggested to you...

Post about yourself, not about other people... focus on you....

Hi Nightmare,

What do you do for fun? What are your hobbies or interests?

Hi nightmare,
I'll add some questions to mata hari's questions.. to help you talk about yourself.
Do you watch TV? What is your favorite show? And why do you like that show?
If you talk about yourself instead of talking about other people, we'll get to know you better and that might be good for you and for us.
Lifesong

I sometimes watch TV but Im not a complete TV addict. I always make sure I watch home and away at 6pm though.