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I have a haircutting fetish. Someone already described it in an earlier thread, it involves the cutting of head hair, mainly women's and my own.

If this is too graphic, I apologize, it's my first post.

Here's the deal: I can't have sex without thinking about my gfs hair or imagining her cutting mine.
I can get "semi-erect" (90%) without involving my fetish, but to get fully erect, it has to be there.

I accept ...

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I've started a relationship with a male in his mid 20s who has strong masochistic tendencies. He likes to be controlled, dominated, humiliated, and tortured. All of his fantasies have this theme. He frequents S&M sites on the internet. He told me about his desires early on in our relationship and I thought it was really cool to try something new. He started sharing these fantasies with me more and more (mostly when we're ...

Up front, i look at my turbulent and rapidly decaying life, and i become more sure i have antisocial personality disorder, but that's neither for this forum, nor what I want to talk about.

I am a hebephile. girls from 14 to 18 are the only girls that I desire enough to establish any sort of connection with. I've been out of high school for a few years, just recently turned 21 and I feel ...

I have read several books on pedophilia that were really books written by researchers for other researchers - I have yet to find a book writtten for people who have pedophilia. In most of these books it said that people with pedophilia have a lower than normal IQ. I wonder if this is just because they are testing child molesters who have been caught - maybe the dumb ones get caught. I took two online ...

I am 28 years old and have been married for five years to one of the only adults I've ever felt attracted to. I have two daughters, ages four and two.

In 2005 I began to have bipolar symptoms, and had a mixed episode. One of the symptoms of mania is hypersexuality, and it is common for people who are hypersexual to have infatuations, commit adultery, etc. I became obsessed with an eleven-year-old girl and ...

I've struggled with intense anxiety, (what I consider a more mild case of OCD), from early childhood through my teenage years and coped through masturbation since I was 4 or 5. When I say masturbation I mean it always as masturbation to the point of orgasm. When I wasn't masturbating I played like a normal child, except for accidental bowel movements through age 7 and constant playing with myself that contributed to some of my ...

If a couple were to be turned on by the idea of being brother and sister and call eachother brother and sister, and kind of role play with that, would it fit in this category, or is it somewhat normal?

Is it common to know you've had sadomasochistic thoughts since the age of four?! I think I'm really not normal!

I've never been sexually abused, but I guess I didn't like the regime at the kindergarten and started to fantasize how the teacher should be punished in her own house in return. Very simple childlike fantasies at first, like deprivation of food or forced to take pills she didn't like.
And it evolved from there, ...

I'm 17 and have had OCD for years, including contamination and hygiene obsessions, and compulsions like not being able to step on any area in line with a central heating duct. It ranges from mild and dismissible to severe and debilitating. Recently, I've noticed thoughts which have got me very concerned, and I really need some help with this and to vent a little as I've become really stressed. Today I spiked so badly my ...

Somehow, I seem to have ended up being attracted to little girls. Instead of ignorantly attempting to ignore this, I've come to terms with the fact that I am what would be considered a pedophile.

I'm not quite sure where I should be going from here. It's a mental illness, right? I don't feel like I need to be treated, though. From my point of view, it's just the way I am. Perhaps my judgment ...