News of Paraphilias Forum

About three years ago, I came back from a trip abroad where colleagues from my school were all "scared" of me and had been avoiding me throughout the trip. No one would tell me what I had done or why I was being avoided. But after a few months I figured it out. I stared directly at a girl's chest when she was sitting next to me in class, and also looked closely at a ...

I have a question. I had a psychiatrist tell me that I developed my paraphilias as a way to manage my PTSD symptoms, which I understand. Crazy childhood equals wired sexual desires I have made my peace with that I think. However I have noticed that definition of the paraphilias doesn’t match up with what my thoughts and feelings are.

For example one of the paraphilias I was diagnosed with is necrophilia. I guessing it ...

I have had this as long as I can remember. I have no interest in rubber or leather.
I feel great comfort and arrousal from wearing Plastic pants and towel nappies(diapers) in bed.
THe internet has made this easy to live out this fantasy of mine.
They have to be identical to the ones I wore as a kid also.Even though I hated having to wear them untill I was nearly six.
I am not ...

Meh..
Usually I'd write something literate and detailed here. But lately, I am feeling exhausted. So you'll have to make do with just the facts of my case.. Sorry. Just saying, any potential PJ-wannabe, save your breath. Tor, netBSD, and any possible security feature you could imagine. I'm Not a criminal, but I'd rather not be outed, thankyouverymuch.

I have been a self-aware pedophile since almost age 13. I have gone trough several phases of ...

I invite anybody with ideas or input about coping with unwanted paraphilic fantasies to post here. Please take the opportunity to gripe about how hard it is or whatever drives you crazy about your paraphilia if you feel like it.

Even though this is a public forum, there are many of us with similar and sometimes nearly identical problems. I mean for this thread to include everyone with paraphilia, not any specific sub-group.

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Hello,

I wondering if I could get some sound advice, as I have been somewhat disturbed by my own fantasies for a long time. (I am a female)

I don't know where to start, but basically, I have fantasies that I have no desire whatsoever acting out in real life, and which trouble me. For all of my life I have enjoyed healthy relationships, and enjoy a healthy sexual relationship with my partner. The problem ...

Hello,
This is my first time on these forums and I really need some advice. I am 21 and have been having mascochistic thoughts and Urophilia fantasies ever since I was 11,everything from mild to extreme . I constantly fantasize about it and any relationships I have involve it and despite that fact that I cant become aroused without it, I cant seem to ever reach orgasm and never get to that point.

The thing ...

The potrayel of little girls in the media and on television is what im guessing keeps fueling my pedophilic thoughts. I cant even walk into a mall without seeing pictures of little girls all prettied up and made to look like miniture adults. There needs to be some kind of ban on showing pictures of children in revealing cloths.


http://cafephilos.wordpress.com/2008/06/02/the-sexualization-of-children-and-adolescents/

I read through the list of paraphilias and I can't get to sleep because I can't stop thinking about cars. Please don't think of me as weird but I get sexual pleasure from cars and any motor vehicle especially motorcycles. I like the sound they make but I don't have one or a car. :( I don't even have my driver's license yet or insurance. So I ...

I'm currently a 21 year old male university graduate. About five years ago, when I was sixteen I started dating a 13 year old girl at my school. It lasted about a year (finishing when I was 17 and she was 14). During that time I got a huge amount of stick from the grand majority of the school that I was a paedophile. I got very depressed, but after a few years of counselling ...