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I was doing some display stuff and some thoughts came to me, so I thought that I would share them:

1. Keep your lifestyle simple. If you are sloppy with laying out clothes, use color groups of stuff that can be mix matched. If you hate hair styling, get a cut, etc.
2. Make humility an everyday goal. Humility without debasing yourself.
3. Make reasonable goals-Make goals which are reasonable.
4. Test limits by taking ...

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I posted something onto the Bipolar forums before, about how I wasn't sure if I had Bipolar Disorder and stuff. Now I'm leaning more towards Borderline (which is one of the things someone replied that I could have, based on my story). I'll tell you in basic lines what is going on.

I was dating this guy last year, July 2012 till May 2013 basically. Around October 2012 several things might have contributed to ...

It's too late to call my parents. I gave my friend space because she said she was sick and just wanted to catch up on homework. Part of me fears she's avoiding me because she doesn't initiate contact with me anymore.

The "Highly Sensitive Person" meetup group I attended Sunday was a colossal disappointment. Of the 9 people who signed up, two showed up on time, one showed up 15 minutes late, and another walked ...

Sooooooooo I'm pretty sure I have bpd. I dont cut myself, and have a sense of identity and morals (though I may slip into camelion mode when uncomfortable and with peopl who I dont expect to keep around...which can unfortunately get pathological), but other than that I'm sure about it. But I feel so different from all the other bpds I know because I have never been one to cling onto a romantic partner. To ...

For the last 3-4 weeks I've been in a crisis. Cycling hard with my emotions. I had a recent relationship event reveled to me that I would of never expected from my fiancee, but I found out she lied to me. It was something that I should of expected considering she is basically a codependent/rescuer.

The lie was just something stupid about her not talking to a certain "friend" who she was talking to because ...

Hi, I'm new to the concept of BPD. I'm also uncertain if I have it or not. I'm heavily researching this subject right now, and I need a couple new opinions, that are not people who know me, and are people who know what this disorder is.
I'm not sure I am BPD, but I do fit the introverted borderline. If lots of things go horribly wrong in my day, I end up crying, and ...

I thought about this work thing-hard.

I have a friend who had a very bad marriage a long time ago. My friend is a mess, I will admit. We share many of the same features. BUT, she is a good person and you can tell.

I have noticed that people from her hometown never give her a break either.

The demographic that represents this is often very closed minded.

As a true friend of GA, ...

I'm crying over lost time

The pain I felt not in the now

But leftover from the past

So I wasn't loved..It's sad

Yet I am loved NOW

And NOW is what counts, what is real

Still I grieve over lost time

Mired in pain

Pain that was handed down

Then created by me alone

I have a way out now

Just feelin the grief

Of lost time and missed opportunities

And letting it go ...

Hello, I'm a male in my 20s, I noticed I exhibit many symptoms of BPD so I decided to post my problem in this section.

Last year I have met a girl on the Internet. She is from a different country than I am. We became good friends. Shortly after we met I started feeling strong affections towards her. I have told her about my feelings and she seemed to like them. Problem is that ...

I was reading about the traits of the Queen Borderline, and, from the point of view of a Narcissistic man such as myself, the Queen Borderline sounds far more like a female Narcissist than a Borderline, at least from the descriptions that I've read online of the Queen Borderline's characteristics. Many of the traits attributed to the Queen Borderline seem inconsistent with the psychology of BPD, such as her supposed sense of entitlement. But those ...