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This CANNOT be normal. It just can't be. It doesn't make any ######6 sense.

Every afternoon after a good sleep (which takes 12 hours... that in itself is not normal), I wake up okay, or sometimes even in a good mood. I go for most of my day at least feeling okay. On that scale of 0-10, I'd give it about a 5.5 or 6 most afternoons -- more 6 than 5.5 though. I was ...

This was a couple of years ago and I'm only now realising her part in it.


I was drunk and on a group camp with my BPD mate.

She led another man to believe that I would be up for a threesome with them.

Then I was unconscious, deeply asleep in our tent. She lay there and watched :shock: as this bloke r*ped me, and I think ...

Hi. I am very upset again with an accusation by my sister that I am "being mean to her" and "making remarks to make her mad" when, at least to my mind, I have done no such thing. This happens all the time, sometimes it blows over without too much fuss but sometimes it is awful. She has borderline personality disorder. She and I live together and sometimes I feel completely at a loss as ...

I've just been told by my supervisor that if I don't get my symptoms of BPD under control that I will lose my job. I am on medications and in therapy and do the best I can. No job - no health insurance. I'm just at a total loss. She is going to start documenting the behavior as well. I don't know what to do. Can people actually work and get along with everyone in ...

I feel like I am trapped. I have a job many girls would die to have, and I do enjoy my work. I am financially stable, I don't overspend, overeat, over-anything. I am very attractive, I just had a cosmetic surgery I have wanted for a while. I take care of my self very well, especially being that I'm only 19.
But I'm alone. I work with lots of other girls, but have failed to ...

Quick history:
I was with my BPD for 4 1/2 years...our last break up was when my mom was dying. I couldn't deal with one of her episodes of jealousy at this time and let her know that. When she wouldn't stop I just never came home. We have been apart for almost 3 months and except for a few letters and emails I have not seen or heard from her. She is seeing someone ...

i only discovered this website this week and although i have been through yrs of councilling and read countless "self help" books, this has proved to be an invaluable resource...even just reading other peoples postings.
i have however become increasingly confused as to which catagory i belong to-there are so many personality disorders and general self esteem, anger and depression issues i can relate to
i am also trying to come to terms with a ...

I was dating a woman at work who has BPD. She left me a few months back and I have to say our parting was not nice. She was highly erratic and I didn't know she had this disorder. I tried my best to help her and support her but I guess I just didn't handle it right. Nowshe thinks I have turned everyone at work against her, accusing me of telling them things about ...

I am happy to announce that I am removing myself from the world of borderline personality disorder. I was put in a box, misdiagnosed and labelled as a freak! I ought to sue my therapist for leading me on a ficticious path to something I don't even have.

I am not saying that I didnt have symptoms, but it was just clearly normal to react to the events of my life and fought desperately to ...

I have recently been discharged from a psychiatric ward where I had resided for ~1 month after being diagnosed with Pathological mourning. While I was there I met a woman who has borderline. We fell in love, perhaps it wasn't the best environment for this to happen but, well, it did.

Now that I am at home again though, she seems very different; I am very confused by this. She is more distant, stops taking ...