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Has Anyone Met Someone Who Understands the Real You?

I have wondered about this for a long time. In my lifetime, I've met few people who I really "connected" to on a deep level. I have few but very loyal and close friends who understand my weirdness. They enjoy it, in fact, because they know I'm naturally quirky and can only be myself when I'm not "faking" it for others.

I have yet to meet someone who I have romantic interest in who understands ...
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My story;feel trapped

I dont know where to start or what to say.I am 18 years old.I started to univercity.I am studying english languege teaching....I always felt shy nearly whole of my life...I remember when i first started to Primary school after lesson finished ;i mean in the brakes i followed my teacher to the teachers room and waited there until the bell ring...i was feeling very insecure that i saw my teacher as a protecter..Never mind i ...
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Mid-30s & No Career. What to do?

Hey, everybody. So I seriously think I may have set an all-time record for lack of participation in the work-force, unless you count career criminals, the mentally retarded and people committed to institutions. I'm in my mid-30s and have no work experience other than a handful of part-time jobs during my college days and one full-time gig seven years ago that lasted just short of a year. I've pretty much given up on having any ...
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Hating yourself as an apology to others?

i can relate to this. I never let people see me in a positive mood, smiling, laughing and even talking because of how much i hate myself and i don't deserve these things, and people will think the same.
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Dealing with problems at work

I was wondering how people with AvPD deal with problems at work. I think if I didn't have AvPD I would have quit my current job, but I hang in partly because I think I could get an even WORSE job. It is also because dealing with new people and situations is very anxiety producing. I think another reason I stay is because I think someone with a sense of responsibility and integrity should stay ...
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AvPD or just a loser

I've never been able to tell anyone about my problems. I've hid my AvPD and my depression for years now. The way I am, I have always been or at least the transition was so gradual and occuring at the same time as puberty and growing up that nobody knows there is anything wrong with me.

So when a guy is 20 and lives with his parents, has no job, never leaves his room, has ...
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Advice: Contacting an old friend.

OK here the thing. I only have two, maybe three really close friends in my life. The last one was from secondary (high) school, some eleven years ago now. We first became friendly in year 8. By this time I was fully avoidant. It took me a about a year for me to trust him effort to go around to he house after school. By the time we finish school 5 years later we were ...
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Fed up!

who am i :? what am i?...i just cant take this anymore everyday is like a hell for me....how can i make these dumn psychologist ot psychiatrsit to understand that i have a ######6 personality disoder and not phobia? ....i wanna be with u peopleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..........but i dont want to at the same time........i have always had avoidanmt personality PROBABLY and now its leading towards schizoid.....i do not ...
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MBTI and Enneagram

I know this has been done before but I don't feel like dredging the forum right now (believe me though, I'll probably do it later).

What's your Enneagram or MBTI/jung type?

I scored as an INTJ and highest for 4, 5, and 1 on the Enneagram (either a 4w5 or 5w4, can't decide).

http://www.geocities.com/lifexplore/

http://9types.com/

Is anyone familiar with a correlative link between this disorder and certain types? If you have any information please provide ...
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What's your greek zodiac sign

I don't know if this has been asked before, but I am really curious to find if most people here belong to a certain sign or not.

It has been theorized that magnetism has an effect on how our minds develop while inside the womb.

I'll start.
I myself am a Capricorn.
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