My *mod edit* Ejaculation Problem

I don't know if this is a reply as much as a new wrinkle on this problem. I have been happily married for thirty years to a wonderful, patient woman. She knew before marriage that sex was and would continue to be a daily fact in our marriage. Until now the biggest sexual challenge was providing her with as much satisfaction as I was/am getting.

My retarted ejaculation problem has been slowly increasing, and my wife and I agree that the culprits are "age and medications". The age there is no cure for, but I require hypertensive drugs, right now Lisinopril and Lopressor, and my MD wants me not to change these, especially the beta blocker. We are past many of the work-arounds, such as masterbating in front of my partner, and then letting her learn. I can no longer masterbate myself, but my wife makes sure that if orgasm is even remotely possible she makes sure it happens. Wonderful, patient woman. But we have watched the length of activity increase, the wear and tear increase, and the success rate is falling.

Is anyone aware of a lifestyle change, dietary change, or so forth to try before I go back to my MD and really get serious about changing meds? Somewhere, I think in this forum, someone mentioned prostate stimulation, and we might give that a try, but I also note there are a couple of herbal products, such as Delecreton or Telical, that may make a difference. Does anyone have any insight on these? Are they potentially helpful or just successful placebos?

hi guys

i've been reading this for a couple of days now; this problem came to my mind cause my gf brought it up .....

I am a virgin so is my gf; but we still engage in oral sex but i've neva been able to ejaculate; I guess i do masturbate frequently and i have a weird masturbation technique where i don't rub my penis at all and just fiddle with my balls and it sort of happens .....

should i be worried? should i stop masturbating? or should I start masturbating the traditional way? I tried it once and it didn't work?

I've been paying attention to this forum hoping to find some relief to my RE problem which, I've realized recently, has been going on much longer than I would have liked to recognize.

Has there been any research into the efficacy of Hynotherapy for RE and also for problems relating to porn conditioning?

Thanks

hi everyone, thank you for creating this topic.

I have been reading this thread for the last few days and i have learned some very interesting things.

I am a 24 gay male, i think i suffer from retarded ejaculation. I am able to ejaculating through masturbation while watching porn alone, but i cant ejaculate when im with a partner. i cannot even ejaculate though masturbation when the partner is there !

I believe my RE is anxiety induced and i am working on solving it. i Have started using holosync meditation technology and it's working well. I have also stopped watching porn and masturbation as i read that sometimes porn addiction could make the RE more intense which makes sense: i am not aroused enough when i am with partner as much as i am while watching porn..I hope this works.

I just want to know if this meditation technique (holosync and others) really works..any thoughts?

I wouldn't try to give anyone medical advice--that's for your doctor. All I can share is my personal experience with Wellbutrin. About 15 years ago, when I was in my mid-40's, I took it for a while before I got on the Nardil I've taken since then for social phobia.

The effect wasn't just subtle, it was dramatic. I felt about 16 again, and it got to be sort of irritating because all I could think about was women. I was in grad school and didn't have a girlfriend at the time, but I could bring myself to an orgasm in just a couple minutes. And after a while, I'd be horny again. I'm planning to switch to an SSRI soon, and I'm counting on the Wellbutrin to do some of what it did before, when I took it by itself.

Many of the men tend to have had a strict upbringing and are very controlled in their lives. Some have terrific drive and detachment, and have risen to the top of their professions. A surprising number have been in the finance industry. Some of them readily admit to having quite controlling personalities. Very often this is directed inward rather than at other people. They may have difficulty in showing emotions and in 'letting go'. Other possible factors include fear of causing pregnancy, fear that the vagina is dirty, over-strict religious upbringing and latent homosexuality.

At present, there are no drugs that will make a man come.But there is a good chance of putting things right through counselling, provided both the man and his partner really want to cure the problem. The object of therapy is to gradually diffuse the man's anxiety about giving up control so he can climax inside his partner without difficulty. The most common method is based on the work of American experts who have developed behaviorist ways of helping the man to relax and 'let go' when he is with his partner.

Many of the men tend to have had a strict upbringing and are very controlled in their lives. Some have terrific drive and detachment, and have risen to the top of their professions. A surprising number have been in the finance industry. Some of them readily admit to having quite controlling personalities. Very often this is directed inward rather than at other people. They may have difficulty in showing emotions and in 'letting go'. Other possible factors include fear of causing pregnancy, fear that the vagina is dirty, over-strict religious upbringing and latent homosexuality.

At present, there are no drugs that will make a man come.But there is a good chance of putting things right through counselling, provided both the man and his partner really want to cure the problem. The object of therapy is to gradually diffuse the man's anxiety about giving up control so he can climax inside his partner without difficulty. The most common method is based on the work of American experts who have developed behaviorist ways of helping the man to relax and 'let go' when he is with his partner.

Can u my friends write about something natural, or natural based products that can help ?

Hello everyone.

I have RE since I can remember and I only ejaculated in wet dreams.

I found this list in the web:

Medications sometimes used to treat delayed ejaculation include:
• Amantadine (Symmetrel)
• Bupropion (Wellbutrin, others)
• Buspirone (BuSpar, Vanspar)
• Cyproheptadine (Periactin)
• Yohimbine

somebody already tried this medicines?

Please, if any of you guys had any success share it !

Im seeing a cbt therapist at a fertility clinic in 2 weeks. This has to stop, had this issue since a kid.

The guys mentioning resentment are 100% spot on. Hell, my girlfriend squirts more then I do, and its really really upsetting me.