Many of us who have been abused find ourselves believeing what our abusers have indoctrinated into ourselves.We feel we ARE worthless,stupid,not good enough to be loved,ESPECIALLY by anyone else,other then our abusers.Afterall,it is they who have stripped our bodies,minds,and souls of any dignity wwe might have had.They want to keep our minds and lives,barren and stark,as they fear losing their circle of victims,or singular victim.An abusers worst fear is having to start all over again.Finding a new victim(s) takes much effort on their part.Plus they soley exist through ego,and if they have no victim to diminish they will have no existence at all.I am finding there are a ton of abusers in this world...Are they products of their enviorment...or is this a form of mental illness..or is abusing a character trait or flaw..or is it just an easy existence for them getting instant self gratification?My heart goes out to all those who live/lived in torment.All those who have suffered at the hands and evil tongues of others.May justice prevail for your sake.May your days be filled with light and love,and may your darkness and sorrow be lifted.xx