I am done (with my sister and her faulty logic)

by **quietgirl2538** on Sun Mar 06, 2022 1:46 pm

It came out in an exchange thru text that my sister has (all of these years; she's 49, I'm 47) always believed I was gravely at fault when me and my mom had it out and I finally, for the first time in my life, stood up for myself and I hit her back. She said I was beating my mom. I remember stopping her hand from beating me over and over again, and telling her if she did it again, I'd hit her right back. My sister does not see the event for what it actually was. She sees me as this evil child who was beating a helpless parent. Far from it, my mom was hitting me, slapping me, verbally putting me down any chance she could get. I could only take so much abuse before I snapped and snapped I did. It was self-defense. I want nothing to do with my sister. She can take her faulty logic with her and go to hell, for all I care! Having her in my life is not healthy for me. She has picked a side when there isn't a side to pick, but that only shows the truth of the situation. But she has, so I have too, I've picked me.

I don't need to prove to her how good a person I am, or how my life is so blessed, she doesn't count in my eyes to have any say about me. She will always see me as a bad person because in her eyes, I was a very bad daughter anyway. So, she can go on her merry way and I will live my life for me.

This event happened when I was 18 years old, I am now 47. Many years ago. Her anger and hate showed though that exchange. I have said my goodbyes and blocked her on my phone. And in my life. I am done.

by **Snaga** on Mon Mar 07, 2022 2:16 am

Hugs, sweetie! Sounds as if it needed doing, I hate to say. Maybe one day things will change with her; but if they don't, well, that's the end of it and you're done.

by **quietgirl2538** on Mon Mar 07, 2022 11:02 am

Thank you Snaga...

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