Hi im a new guy,im 61 years and met a 48 yr old woman who told me that she was totally in love with me and I with her just after a few weeks.We were dating for 3 months but she kept telling me she was divorcing her husband for his infidelity and that she would buy us a home and no woman would ever love me like her.She only allowed me a few hours of her time each week,stating pressure of work,family commitments etc.I started to get suspicious and found that her husband was still living at their house but she said that they lived apart in the house because of pending divorce.She made loads of excuses and last week she said she couldn't wait to move into our new house and start a new life with me.4 hours later she is on a plane with her husband going on holiday,i found this out by going to her house and seeing her son who she said continuously was accompanying her on holiday.When I managed to get hold of her she blamed for everything and anything saying that I never loved her!lots of lies.I admit my life was then over and I took an overdose but a week later today I am thankfully better.My family and friends tried to warn me from the outset but I was so in love with her but now I can see that she actually believes all her lies and has been living out of reality.I also now realise that she gave me subtle hints that she was having sex with other men when I was seeing her,it appears that her self esteem is so bad that she craves attention and I was the guy who adored her.Im now afraid that when she returns from holiday she will turn up at my doorstep to shift all the blame she has conjured up in her mind on me.Why would a person do this to another,I absolutely adored her.Still looking for answers if anyone can shed any light on this matter which nearly killed me and is hurting me so badly each and every minute.