young girls

I'm among all ages, mostly attracted to 11/14 yo's. always have been. struggled with it for years now have accepted it. i want rational objective opinions if i say i want intimacy with one.

Are you saying you want intimacy with an 11-14yo girl?

just to avoid any 'you're sick' etc i'm not. i have done enough research to know that. Yes that's why I'm posting this thread. only intelligent comments please =) (not referring to the above comment) to answer your question - yes. happens a a lot more often than you think also

i have a normal life, job, had gf's older than me, am creative and speak languages. but this is different

What do you want to hear? You say you've struggled, then accepted it. Then you ask very directly for opinions about getting intimate with a girl of that age.

The only objective and rational reply to that is: Don't.

good point. my objective is to get it off my chest mainly, although I have a diff opinion about it. considering statics and human psychology and instinct, i would say 'be careful'. you said that based on what morals tell you i guess ?

Okay, you're saying you want intimacy with a child, what can I say? First, it's illegal, second, children and preteens don't have the abilities to give consent, so it'd be rape anyway.

All I can say is that you should fight these urges. It is very possible to keep those urges away.

Being intelligent has nothing to do with being a pedophile. Pedophiles aren't stupid. I'm an intelligent, creative person as well. Being smart and doing a lot of research doesn't change the fact that you're a pedophile.

calling me a pedophilia is a serious accusation. had you read my OP, you wouldn't have. it's a disorder we're not adressing here. go to aspd side of the forum some things are explained. for example, the researched has pointed out my attraction has only been labeled since the twenty first century. before, it existed as a part of life. second, this age is the highest fertile moment in life 12-20. third, 100 male subjects 18-35yo showed 75% more attraction towards those ages. you cant moralize nature.

Im not saying Im planning to do it, im saying instinctually this always has existed and dont accept any labels for it. except if, in my case, it applies. i do want to get rid of it but because of scoeity not me.

if you're really keen on labeling it - go for hebephilia. pedo is for children. this for the entrance of hormones, preparing for reproduction

Siriustora wrote: i do want to get rid of it but because of scoeity not me.

Well I'd say that's a good start.

Next, you need to think of why society strives to protect people of such ages, and hopefully then you'll want to refrain for their sakes.

i wasn't calling YOU a pedophile i was just saying it in general. I did read your OP and i thought i was being careful not to say anything that would offend you. You never said you didn't want the word pedophile to be used.

i said what I said cause i just got the feeling that you're trying so hard to explain it away as something other than..you know...insert words I can't use.


I'm a hebephile as well. So i'm not trying to offend you or judge you in any way.


So you say the only reason you want to get rid of it is because of society...who the eff cares what they think anyways...? you shouldn't want to change yourself for other people.