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Re: young girls

Postby Siriustora » Sat Feb 14, 2015 12:41 am

Now that's a good statement !

Note - I had a girlfriend in the last months and I realized I don't have hebephilia, but situations and society + the excitement of 'illegality' made it sort of passion. I guess I keep the intrigue because I've 'trained' myself for so long but it's not a fatal attraction in my personality towards tweens.

PS - I'm entering a 'friends with benefits' state with a woman in her thirties.
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Re: young girls

Postby neptune » Wed Mar 04, 2015 3:01 am

sezchwarn wrote:

3) As for understanding attraction toward girls 11-14, OP, young girls greatly exhibit two of the most important attractive features for men, femininity and vulnerability. It stems back to the masculine hunter gather function as provider and protector. Men tend to go for small, slender girls, rather than stocky big girls and girls go for big, strong men. This presence of opposites is what causes attraction.


actually I believe you are incorrect here. society dictates what we find attractive to a degree.., social nurturing and the world we grow up in shape and dictate desires. I can assure you if you were to go back to hunter gatherer times the men would not be desiring the slender girls and the girls would not be choosing to mate with men that are ripped with 5% body fat.
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Re: young girls

Postby frustratedoldguy » Wed Mar 04, 2015 6:23 am

I think these feelings are far more common than people admit. Look at the cultures that have or still practice having 'child brides'. Many locals in the US allow marriage at 13 with parents consent. Look at the prevalence of child pornography. But in our society you can't legally act on it or even depict is.
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Re: young girls

Postby NYRanger1 » Sat Mar 14, 2015 5:52 am

Hi everyone, I had to post here as this is the topic I fight with most on a daily basis. Let me start by saying I'm married 15 years and have a 13 yr old son and a 10 yr old daughter. Within the last year I have not been able to resist my attraction to girls 9- up. I do think it started last summer when my daughters friends would come over and swim in our pool. I could not stop looking at their little wet bodies and as a foot lover I was fixated on all their pretty feet and of course they all had their toes colored and one girl was even wearing a toe ring!! Isn't the point of a toe ring to draw attention to toes?? I have since been addicted to masturbating to young beautiful girls as the rush from the taboo nature is overwhelming. I wrestle everyday with this right and severely wrong but feel as though as long as I don't act on it its just fun private time. I have never been like this in my life and maybe its an age thing, I dont know. I just wish it was ok to like this out loud sometimes. I know most guys look at preteens walking by or on the beach with their shades down so that helps me stay ok with it.
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Re: young girls

Postby NYRanger1 » Tue Mar 17, 2015 6:55 am

Hello again. Yes I'm replying to myself here just because I wanted to say more. I have been thinking since my last post and after reading it I realize one thing. I am no longer going to be ashamed or second guess myself. This attraction and fantasy of young girls is just that and I am blown away by how much it gets me off. We all fantasize and most likely its never about who is in ur life or about normal stuff. I'll say it out loud here. I go absolutely insane at the site of some girls 7,8 and up on the beach in their little bikinis all wet and any girls that age and up wearing flip flops or open toed shoes drives me nuts!!! Women's feet are hot but a little girl with painted toes is awesome. I have been wrapped up in child modeling sites lately and love to see the girls dressed so provocatively. Again I am smart enough to never act on this and I will just enjoy the rush!! Again I would never act on it. Whew felt good to say all that
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Re: young girls

Postby Endymion » Tue Mar 17, 2015 9:44 am

I am primarily attracted to older prepubescent girls (8+) and younger adolescent girls (up to about 16), and to a lesser extent women into their twenties. I also have a foot fetish and wonder whether this is partly what allows me to be sexually attracted to all those age ranges. I see very little difference between the feet of a 9-year-old and a 15-year-old. And when it comes to being aroused by a 4-year-old or a 44-year-old, it's usually something to do with feet. I started puberty at 9, so by the time my female peers had breasts my sexuality was already firmly 'scripted'. I avoid modelling sites because of legal issues here (UK), but YouTube is my porn. Nothing beats a high-definition video of a girl demonstrating gymnastics moves in a leotard.
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Re: young girls

Postby Siriustora » Tue Mar 17, 2015 11:07 pm

Curious to the people's mental dxes on this thread. Should be, and realistically is, irrelevant of course
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Re: young girls

Postby Mustelidae » Tue Mar 17, 2015 11:13 pm

Siriustora wrote:Curious to the people's mental dxes on this thread. Should be, and realistically is, irrelevant of course


dxes?
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Re: young girls

Postby Siriustora » Wed Mar 18, 2015 5:56 pm

Diagnoses
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Re: young girls

Postby Mustelidae » Thu Mar 19, 2015 12:41 am

Siriustora wrote:Diagnoses


You mean you're curious as to what other mental disorders people in this thread have aside from their paraphilias?
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