svenne wrote:I'm sorry to hear that. Do you suffer from depression?
I've also suffered with suicidal thoughts for some time now. Just like you I suspect it's providing me with some relief when everything is too much. I think I have had real intentions, but I probably wouldn't jump.
I was told by the therapist that suicidal thoughts is a reaction to the feelings one cannot handle. And I think she is right; I cannot cope with the pain. It's mostly triggered by very critical thoughts about myself and my hopeless future - I ruminate a lot about that.
I try to remove focus from the thoughts with everything from podcast listening, calling someone, television, jogging. I find that removing focus helps in most cases.
I have a mild bipolar spectrum type condition, mood swings, but they're controlled pretty well by my meds.
How about you? Do you have clinical depression, or are these thoughts triggered by NPD? Do you have NPD/suspected NPD? Any other PDs?
It's interesting. When I have these thoughts, I don't really want to escape them. They're ego-syntonic in a way, because I feel I deserve to die for being such a #######5 person and having such a ###$ up way of interacting with the world and pushing all the right buttons to get angry reactions and, in my mind, hatred from people.
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MeAgain wrote:A couple of times a month with me, I'd say. I think of it as a self indulgence and snap out of it fairly quickly. Gnawing boredom is my biggest problem.
Thank you for sharing. What seems to trigger your suicidal ideation?
Boredom and emptiness are huge problems for me, too. Always have been, from what I can recall.
I read in a really interesting article, a completely new take on narcissistic personality disorder, that emptiness and a very limited emotional self-awareness, other than the compulsion for seeking supply to validate grandiosity and confirm high status/social rank, is now seen as a hallmark of the disorder.