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I would like to make friends

Postby CatnipSystem » Thu Oct 21, 2021 4:04 am

Hello ! My name is Celeste, the host of our system, I don't really want to make this long but.. I just really would like to meet new people! So, introduce yourself and I'll say hi !
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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby Arik » Thu Oct 21, 2021 1:48 pm

I'm Arik, the host, male, born in 1969. My two known alters are:

Samantha, female, 1980 - 1993
Jeanette, female, 1986 - present

I don't know Samantha's role in the system. Jeanette's life and history are different from mine, and yet at the same time, symbolically parallel my own, allowing me to express emotions I wasn't otherwise able to release.
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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby CatnipSystem » Thu Oct 21, 2021 2:36 pm

Arik wrote:I'm Arik, the host, male, born in 1969. My two known alters are:

Samantha, female, 1980 - 1993
Jeanette, female, 1986 - present

I don't know Samantha's role in the system. Jeanette's life and history are different from mine, and yet at the same time, symbolically parallel my own, allowing me to express emotions I wasn't otherwise able to release.


Hello Arik! I was born in 1993, it's lovely to meet you! I have 15 Alters in total, it is good to hear that you have access to emotions you couldn't before. I am currently working on that, I have only recently become the host. I was the host I about 7 years ago. In that time we have come far in accepting that we DiD.
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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby WaterSelkie » Thu Oct 21, 2021 5:33 pm

Hello!

I'm the host of a system going through the first steps in therapy. Everything is currently blurred, confusing and muddled so I'm only starting to discover everything. At present, I know I have a social protector, a shutdown protector, and at least 2 repressed trauma parts.

-I don't know who I am right now?? So I guess I'll use the name that is used collectively for us, which is Frances.
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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby Arik » Thu Oct 21, 2021 5:53 pm

1993? The same year Samantha "died." Next week marks the twenty-eighth anniversary of her "death."

I know that alternate personalities don't die, but in my inner world, she did.
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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby CatnipSystem » Thu Oct 21, 2021 8:20 pm

Arik wrote:1993? The same year Samantha "died." Next week marks the twenty-eighth anniversary of her "death."

I know that alternate personalities don't die, but in my inner world, she did.

I'm sorry to hear that, how have you been doing since?
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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby gremandco » Fri Oct 22, 2021 5:59 am

hi, i’m grem and i’m the co-host of my system with kat. we have DID, of course, and are very likely polyfragmented with a currently unknown (high) alter count.

i’m some form of agender/nonbinary (any pronouns are fine, he/him, she/her, they/them, i don’t care too much), and kat is male, (he/him).

we were born in 2003 so that makes us 18, almost 19 years old. by far one of the youngest systems on this site, haha.

nice to meet you celeste :D
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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby ArbreMonde » Fri Oct 22, 2021 6:19 am

Nice to meet you too.

May I remind you all that the forum is public and that it is unwise to share informations that can be tied directly to your civil identities such as birthdays?

Take care of yourselves.
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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby gremandco » Fri Oct 22, 2021 6:20 am

ah you may be right, thanks for that reminder. :D

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Re: I would like to make friends

Postby Arik » Fri Oct 22, 2021 11:19 am

CatnipSystem wrote:I'm sorry to hear that, how have you been doing since?

I honor the sister I never had every year. I'm fine.

-- Fri Oct 22, 2021 5:22 am --

David wrote:May I remind you all that the forum is public and that it is unwise to share informations that can be tied directly to your civil identities such as birthdays?

We can mention our birth year, right?

-- Fri Oct 22, 2021 5:28 am --

gremandco wrote:we were born in 2003 so that makes us 18, almost 19 years old. by far one of the youngest systems on this site, haha.

You're younger than my alternate personality Jeanette, and she's thirty-five. In any case, I remember what it was like when she was one of the youngest in a forum.
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