went to work showered a 99 year old lady. god i love her she makes me happy she dose so well for her age. then back home. later i have to pick my husband up from work because he lost his license. it was because some one didnt own up and take responsibility for there own actions because they were on a suspended sentanse so this other person would of gone to jail. we did fight it for 18months but got to expensive and didnt have enough evidense. so that a big bummer at the moment. and befor this he didnt have a record my husband was squeekky clean.so now we got fines and a fence to pay for that he didnt do. so after i pick him up we will go to my dads why were in town. because hes moving out tomorrow he sold up and is moving 300 klm away from me to be closer to my younger siblings and have more custedy. so its a sad week because this house use to me my nans house then when she pased away my dad payed his brother and sister out to keep the house. then his wife took off after having 3 kids and hes had to sell to pay her out but it went ok payed her out and dad had enough to by house out right up were they moved to with nice big pool. just going to miss this house were i grew up its home. so have to pick a few little things up be4 tomorrow. and dad wants me to be there with him when he locks up and hands keys in. so a sad day is coming hope it dosnt set off a deprest mood for the next few day just trying to stay stong and think in my head its not happening.

Wow, that is alot to deal with. I hope you keep staying strong.

I hope you keep enjoying that old lady while you still have her in your life... she sounds like a darling woman . Why don't you let yourself grieve the end of your childhood home. It is a loss and it might even be a bit sad for you, that you Dad is moving away further from you, no matter how much you might understand the reason. Focus on the good and everything you are grateful for; grieve the bad and try your best to keep out of crappy situations. I hope you don't mind me giving a bit of advice; you just seem a bit bewildered by it all atm and I am hoping I might be able to say something that might hopefully be able to spark off some clarity for you about your situation.

no my nan passes 10 12 years ago, i dont have a womon figuer in my life like a mum. i never have. as my husband says to people i have pritty much bought up my self through my teens. u can say any thing living well and i wont take it the rong way.

my nan passed over 12 years ago. i haven had a mother roll figuer through my teenage years. living well you couldnt say any thing the rong way i now what u mean and that u dont mean it in a mean way xo