Today started out nice, then my husband yelled at me as we were trying to hook up the border plow to the tractor. He had damaged it the last time he used it, and I fixed it. We were then trying to find the pins for the 3 point hookup and they weren’t on the implement. He accused me of not putting them back on when we took it off before, and I pointed out that we couldn’t put them on because of the damage. He eventually found them and we hooked it up. He went off into the fields and I went to do chores.
I had a lunch planned with a girl friend and he’s known this for a week. But he became sullen as the time approached. I went off to lunch and he was in a pissy mood when I got back. He always says I should go have lunch with my friends when I want to, but when I do he gets mad about it. Another friend came over this afternoon to have a document notarized (I’m a notary) and he was pissed about that. He’s angry about everything. At 4:30 he went back to the bedroom to watch tv and there he will stay until morning.
My girl friend and I are planning a girls weekend in November, in San Diego. He will be angry about that too. I want to live my life despite his anger. We are still waiting for a psychologist referral from his doctor, now that the brain MRI is done and shows no problems.