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by sublyp » Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:54 am
come back alice margatroid
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by Evenstar » Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:21 pm
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by debwaugh » Wed Mar 18, 2009 1:47 pm
I am, for a fact, overweight at 195 pounds and 5'2", so any self-doubt I have there doesn't count. I don't so much feel ugly as I feel old and used up---I guess in a way that does mean I feel ugly. Like someone else mentioned, when I look at pictures of myself from college and my 20's I can see that I was pretty, but I would never have believed it at the time. Now those pictures just make me see how I DON'T look that good anymore.
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by Ody12345 » Wed Mar 25, 2009 8:39 am
I am quite ugly.
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by Derelict » Wed Mar 25, 2009 6:39 pm
Ugly would be the easiest word for me to use... But something about the way I look apparently screams something foreboding, so I'm told. But in short, I am not pretty. Average, perhaps. But odd. I was bullied in school about various things, looks included. Well, looks mainly, but it had a lasting effect on me.
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by shutin » Sun Apr 19, 2009 2:31 pm
Yes and yes. Sometimes I feel better about myself though. Now is not one of those times though. I had a hard time accepting complements for a long time.
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by Reiji Moritsugu » Mon Apr 20, 2009 3:27 am
As far as I´m concerned I am ugly enough for the bible to be modified, with uglyness being the new eight deadly sin.
Yeah, I have a really great opinion of myself. [sarcasm OFF]
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by babyborn » Mon May 25, 2009 7:32 am
JMX29 wrote:My mother once told me I was unattractive. I'm glad I'm not a girl, or else it would've hurt 100 times more.
Hell yeah, try being an avoidant girl with eating disorder issues. A comment like that would send someone like me to the nuthouse.
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by shhhshhh » Mon May 25, 2009 9:08 pm
Look at my signature

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If it were looks alone that gave us our confidence and ability to have friends and lovers, I'd be out getting laid right now or hanging out with friends, not whining on a message board midday on Memorial day of all days.
I voted no, suffice to say
Yes, it is possible to be this good looking and not have a girlfriend

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by minderaser52 » Thu Jul 23, 2009 3:41 am
I guess I dont see myself as some perfect image of how you should look. I do workout, I go through stages of being more happy with the image. But when I reach any feasable image I always just so easly take steps to knock me backwards as if I dont deserve the physique I worked so hard to develop. If things are not going perfect in my eyes for my life then usually I am doing things to myself to destroy my image.
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