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postures are striking, eye-catching, graphic?

Postby wisdom » Wed Jun 16, 2010 1:09 pm

Ever see a HPD magnetically draw attention with just "the look", cloths, body movements, sounds?

Examples:
    short skirts or shorts
    clothing tailored to be exceptionally form fitting
    Jeans very tight and/or crotch depth seam so shallow it sinks in very deep in the front or back
    Scoop top that's a bit loose with some jewelry to draw attention to the breasts
    Bending low squarely facing you so much or all the breasts are displayed
    Coquettish short stride run/walking with a bounce or swoosh - somehow attention grabbing and arousing
    A quick bashful look away (like they were caught staring at you lost in steamy sexual thoughts) then blushing, followed by a look back, a batting of the eye lashes, etc.
    Pupils very dilated along with a playful coquettish hot "desire" look? - like a kid that's about to get some really fantastic surprise
    short, quick, bouncy steps, used to maximally draw attention to legs or rear...

(from answers.yahoo.com)
Do you like the sound of high heels clicking across the floor ?
    "Yes, very much so. It is like the call of the wild."
    "lol yes, actually"
    "Oh yes! It's so sexy!"
    "Hey, I'm over here! Look at me, I'm walking!" "And I want everyone to know I'm walking!"
    "Yes I think it is sensuous sound."
    "No, not really, unless those high heels have sexy legs attached to them."

How do they do it? No doubt it draws attention! Do HPD's know themselves they are doing this? Do they actually study others (suck up all the technique they can), rehearse, and perform? Or, do they just develop these attention grabbing talents with no conscious effort on their part?

see also:
http://www.psychforums.com/histrionic-personality/topic50221-10.html#p363299
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Re: postures are striking, eye-catching, graphic?

Postby Principled Man » Wed Jun 16, 2010 4:59 pm

I've wondered this too, especially when it comes to the porn star sex. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing. The look, the dirty talk, the moans, it was all porn. She has a "thing" for watching porn (more like an addiction) and I wondered if she studied up and imitated. God knows I don't like thinking about all the practice she's had. Looking back and reading other posts here I can see it really was an act, like it was just a performance: time to get into character. She played it so well and I sure do miss it. :(
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Re: postures are striking, eye-catching, graphic?

Postby Principled Man » Wed Jun 16, 2010 5:02 pm

Oh yeah and random guys always approaching when we were out and about. I mean like coming over to our table when we were out to dinner to introduce themselves and tell me how lucky I was and to treat this pretty lately right. I know damn well she was shooting them looks and God knows what. God forbid she leave for the bathroom. Somehow though I could never really catch her in the act. She was very subtle, but oh so seductive. I don't miss that. :oops:
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Re: postures are striking, eye-catching, graphic?

Postby Lures-her-back » Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:25 pm

Even if she my hpd ex was wearing no make up and all mens clohtes, others would still react to her as if she were some kind of intoxicating drug. I don't miss that. It hurt like hell. My hpd also watched porn, but I never caught her doing it. I found her membership card to the sex shop while cleaning the house. She said she never was there for anything but to rent porn. She also was a prostitute at one point. She lied about until it I tricked her into admitting it, but she says she quit after the first time. I bet she didn't. She probably even kept it going during the relationship. She had a huge obsession with stripping, but she never went through it with while we were together. This I am sure of, because the local strip club won't hire her no matter how many times she tries, because she is overwieght and inconsistant. One of the times she broke up with me, she said she would only take me back if I would allow her to strip. I managed to convince her she would rather sell Mary Kay right before her audition. Some of the things she said were funny. She would start by putting on her angry/superior face and say things like "are you sure you aren't just saying that to keep me from dancing?". Then she would begin to think she could make more money selling Mary Kay, and revolve her life around it, even though she sucks at selling anything but her body. Yes, I know exactly what you are talking about. They know who to be more seductive than normal girls by a long shot. Also, I think it is very much on purpose.
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