Re: i have self esteem problems

Thanks arbie wun maybe when im older and wiser i would think of myself a better and beautiful person and ill try not to listen to other guys even though its kind of hard but thankyou.

Babygirl, if they are mean and you can't not hear their words just think about why they say them.... remember they probably feel as bad as you and do what they do to feel better within themselves. Always remember that if they have to say those words then they feel they are less of a person than you are.

well no affence its easier say then done espcieally since they do it in front of everyone and when everyone laughs at what they say. it really hurts. and that person did it right in front of the person i like.god life is just so hard especially when there is alot of people against you. its like doing a battle with tons of people all by yourself

I know what it's like, and I have been there too... of course you don't just fight all those people either coz you are also fighting yourself inside. Inside you is the hardest battle believe me and once you can start winning those battles you will start to feel better.

Yeah im really glad that someone know how it feels now i dont feel alone like i always do i just feel like i will never feel pretty or good enough for anyone

Aww *hug* but I am sure you are a very pretty lady and all of those people say those things to try and keep you feeling beneath them when really you probably soar above them. I used to always feel like I wasn't good enough and all of that but all it took was a little advice from a friend which in fact was as simple as the fact that most people don't feel pretty but to make themselves feel better they make others feel worse.

Yeah i know im sorry for being so stubborn im not usually like that but only stubborn when its about how i feel and about what i think.You might not care but im going to tell. My history teacher is a cool teacher and he's always saying that im pretty,so anyways today i finally wear eye liner and he's like you are ready a pretty girl inside and out. it makes me feel little better and i just think about how this is why i like older guys because they dont just want girls that open their legs but like girls that are smart sweet and doesnt flaunt my stuff aka im describing my self and p.s i got nothing to flaunt thanks arbie wun for talking to me.

Aww it sounds like you have a bit of a crush on your teacher...

I am sure that you are a delightful and lovely girl and you shouldn't have to 'flaunt it' to get noticed because the girls that do tend to be called a lot of names which are not nice too such as 'slut', and they generally also get the reputation of being 'easy' because the tend to over 'flaunt it'

Just be yourself and don't try to be something you're not because it's popular or cool because it's not who you are and you really want people to like you...

prettyprincess wrote:Hey do you sometime look in the mirror and dont like what you see, well i feel like that and thats almost everday. like everyday i feel ugly and i dont know what to do about it. and im not the only one who thinks so like guys thinks so like they called me hurtful names and its just so hard to believe that im pretty who ever feels this way you can comment or pm me

It happens, imagine a scale of 1-10 on beauty......... 1's will find 1's more attractive and 2's will find 2's etc. etc.
So whilst the scale itself is not a measurement of beauty as beauty is in the eye of the beholder,you might by a 2 but to another 2 you'll be prettier than a 10 it just so happens that the more outspoken people tend not to be 5's lol.

Also the fact the someone is open insulting says more about him than you, remember just be yourself and let the idiots who shout at people in the street get on with their very inportant lives

thanks..my self esteem is getting a little better but only a little.