Using women for sex only.

i asked question,s back as you do in a debate an got none.

BTW...you did get answers, but you've chosen to ignore them.

Take care and happy blogging.

sweetcheeks wrote:

I havent got a problem ,i was a lucky guy

Hmmm, so how many dinner parties do you disclose this at manic?

I'm glad you think you were lucky. [/quotE///////////// I have never been to a dinner party , as not like yourself,i am working class. But it goes down well in the bar. a sort of cult figure on the lines of casanova.A bit like ,he who has made love to an been made love to by lots of women is a lucky man indeed, i rest my case

That's right honey...you keep telling yourself that.

Seriously, it's all good manic. I do wish you well.

I do agree with manic on that, I think he is really lucky. I wish i could sleep with many women but I also think it would be really nice to have a woman who stays with me and someone to share and be supported etc... but having sex with a lot of girls on the way seems like a good plan to me.

Wait until you're older. You're still very young and so your hormones are on heat. That seems to be normal for young guys.
You said it yourself...you'd like someone to "share your life with". Believe me...that's so much nicer than a heap of "bodies" that are meaningless. AND they are meaningless in relation to your true needs.

I used a dating site to meet guys back in 2003: to be honest, I didn't really need it, but I it was an experiment. I got sick of hearing some of my girlfriends saying "go out and have a good time". So, I did. What I quickly found out was that meeting a new guy almost every week became a meaningless "chore". They were all just numbers. Same $#%^, different smell. Behaving like an alley cat was not only meaningless, it interfered with my self esteem. I have a good sense of self: I know who I am, and what I want. I solely believe that the closer we get to our inner core and who we are, the less "needy" we become. Finding someone special with whom you can build meaning and a quality life, not only promotes self esteem, but it also promotes trust, respect, a sense of belonging and a whole range of better quality emotions. I'm sure in another 10 years or so, you'll prefer quality over quantity. x

Oh BTW I do remember being even younger than you, and my experiences: discovering sex is like a kid with a new toy. Like any child, eventually, you get sick of the toy because it can't do much more than what it was designed for. AND so you keep getting new toys. At some later stage, you'll swap your toys, for the "real thing". Good luck

sweetcheeks, you are telling him this as an older woman,You have done all the things he wants to do and so have i.BBBBBBBBBut your telling him not to do it. WHY you did, let him find out for himself i say. Your like an ex junky telling everyone you meet dont do its bad for you. You were useing date sites ,thats desperate an sad .no wonder you feel sex is dirty you were prostituting yourself . life is about finding out yourself so leave the dude to do just that

O.K manic, you're right in that he needs to experience these things for himself. Sorry, it's the 'mother' in me. Can't help it.

As for the "prostituting myself" on the internet....MY GOD...you've got problems boy!!

What a load of crap! Nothing more civilised than being in the comfort of your own home, without having to go to noisy night clubs having to put up with men I'm not interested in, trying to make useless conversation to loud music that most people don't like: spending money on drinks I don't want; SCREAMING over the music, which is incredibly painful to say the least; and having to painfully be polite to guys whom I'm NOT interested in. What a waste of time!

BTW...who said that I slept with all the guys I've dated from the internet dating site? MAN...WHAT AN ASSUMPTION!! You've got a problem manic
I didn't sleep with ONE...none of them could even pass the first step, LET ALONE giving them permission to touch my body. OMG...

what can I say? Back to packing! That's where I should be.

AND....what an assumption saying that I think sex is dirty??? This is YOUR baggage!! Where did this come from in any case?

BTW...YOU are the one who openly admits to having slept with anything in a skirt before your wife came along. YOU, sweetie, are the prostitute, not me! I have never needed to behave like an alley cat: I've always known what makes me tick and what makes me happy. Having notches in a belt is far more embarrassing than anything else. Sorry manic.

Going to bars and night clubs with the hope you'll meet someone is what I call "desperate". I wouldn't waste my time, energy or money! I'm smarter, as are all those who do use the internet. Smart "choices" lead to smart decisions!

You need to get with the times honey!!

Ciao

you sound a barrel of laughs, you dont like loud music or drinks, small wonder your on your own. You have more rules about dateing than fish in the sea. I would like to see your photo,to be as choosy as you are you must look like goddess. By the way i was married when a shagged quite a few women, I had a problem like you will never have?????????? they wouldent leave me alone. Anyway why you still her as you said you were leaveing the site as you never stay long on one site you get board. Dont let me stop you