Can relationships start if

I met him at this nightclub and he was rude and grabbed my legs/buttom a lot but then since then I think of him at night a lot, so can a relationship start if he was THAT dirty, or is he automatically not a good idea? ty

Hi, Isabel! No, I don't think being with this guy would be a good idea. Maybe you're thinking of him as a way to feel like you have control over what happened or maybe you're lonely.

I don't think that's a relationship you want to try to start. You don't want a man that will man-handle and touch women like that when he doesn't know them.... find someone who won't treat you like a piece of meat. He clearly has no respect for you to do that to you in the first place.

Butterfly Faerie wrote:I don't think that's a relationship you want to try to start. You don't want a man that will man-handle and touch women like that when he doesn't know them.... find someone who won't treat you like a piece of meat. He clearly has no respect for you to do that to you in the first place.

You assume shes not into that sort of thing. bloody feminists.

Think about what you're asking. You're thinking about him and you're interested in him but you're asking if it's okay because you think that others won't approve of his behavior. So ask yourself, do you want to satisfy yourself or others?

Honestly, sweets, this is not a man you want to be with. No man should behave disrespectfully towards a woman. If you liked it, and you want to jump his bones, and you're comfortable with that, then by all means sleep with him. But this is not someone you want to get involved with or attached to. It doesn't matter who you are, you deserve better than this man will treat you in the long term.

jasmin wrote:Hi, Isabel! No, I don't think being with this guy would be a good idea. Maybe you're thinking of him as a way to feel like you have control over what happened or maybe you're lonely.

i feel lonely sometimes , the only person i like is already taken by another lady , so i miss making out

Butterfly Faerie wrote:I don't think that's a relationship you want to try to start. You don't want a man that will man-handle and touch women like that when he doesn't know them.... find someone who won't treat you like a piece of meat. He clearly has no respect for you to do that to you in the first place.

yeah he seemed really confident! it shocked me , but then i thought of him when i was alooone.

vanity wrote:Think about what you're asking. You're thinking about him and you're interested in him but you're asking if it's okay because you think that others won't approve of his behavior. So ask yourself, do you want to satisfy yourself or others?

i want to save myself for for my crush but i like to sleep with guys in my head, just confused i guess

candymonkeybastard wrote:Honestly, sweets, this is not a man you want to be with. No man should behave disrespectfully towards a woman. If you liked it, and you want to jump his bones, and you're comfortable with that, then by all means sleep with him. But this is not someone you want to get involved with or attached to. It doesn't matter who you are, you deserve better than this man will treat you in the long term.

i'm not sure, just really into sexuality etc