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Isabel_cares4ppl wrote:

candymonkeybastard wrote:Honestly, sweets, this is not a man you want to be with. No man should behave disrespectfully towards a woman. If you liked it, and you want to jump his bones, and you're comfortable with that, then by all means sleep with him. But this is not someone you want to get involved with or attached to. It doesn't matter who you are, you deserve better than this man will treat you in the long term.

i'm not sure, just really into sexuality etc

These people have to you all you need to know. He is bad news, he will treat you like crap. Whats even more troublesome is that apparently that turns you on. If you want a sex buddy, then go for it. But if you want a long term lover, look elsewhere.

CSRevenant wrote:

Isabel_cares4ppl wrote:

candymonkeybastard wrote:Honestly, sweets, this is not a man you want to be with. No man should behave disrespectfully towards a woman. If you liked it, and you want to jump his bones, and you're comfortable with that, then by all means sleep with him. But this is not someone you want to get involved with or attached to. It doesn't matter who you are, you deserve better than this man will treat you in the long term.

i'm not sure, just really into sexuality etc

These people have to you all you need to know. He is bad news, he will treat you like crap. Whats even more troublesome is that apparently that turns you on. If you want a sex buddy, then go for it. But if you want a long term lover, look elsewhere.

no no no not a sex buddy! he's just very attractive, and imagine him before i sleep, anyway i don't think ill meet with him again

Isabel, maybe there is a deeper reason for this attraction and you should figure it out. It's ok to be a sexual person, but being with this guy would put you in danger.

jasmin wrote:Isabel, maybe there is a deeper reason for this attraction and you should figure it out. It's ok to be a sexual person, but being with this guy would put you in danger.

its really inconvenient how if a man is sexy around me it makes feelings all control me and go all turned on, it gets me into danger, it happens at the beach when men are talkative and have touched me. i'm not in love with the person that touches me.

Have you tried getting therapy for this?

I'm going to be honest and put this out there but why would you be looking for a relationship in a nightclub?
Seriously, when I go clubbing - it's only for fun and that's it. If you're looking for a relationship, cross out nightclubs as a start.

And why you're feeling this way for that guy? You answered it: he's confident. Confidence wins.

Besides, by the way he treated you on that night - I'm sure he treats every girl he's ever met like that. He must be a really awesome guy. Well, not to be with of course.

jasmin wrote:Have you tried getting therapy for this?

only talk online about it, it seems impossible to say in person, my friends even

coeus wrote:I'm going to be honest and put this out there but why would you be looking for a relationship in a nightclub?
Seriously, when I go clubbing - it's only for fun and that's it. If you're looking for a relationship, cross out nightclubs as a start.

And why you're feeling this way for that guy? You answered it: he's confident. Confidence wins.

Besides, by the way he treated you on that night - I'm sure he treats every girl he's ever met like that. He must be a really awesome guy. Well, not to be with of course.

to be truthful i enjoy wearing my favorite dresses around guys so nightclubs are so hot, yep hes not bf material but made my feelings control me

You can write a letter and give it to the therapist and you can also make sure that it's a woman. It wouldn't be so bad, you probably have a problem and you need to get some help.

jasmin wrote:You can write a letter and give it to the therapist and you can also make sure that it's a woman. It wouldn't be so bad, you probably have a problem and you need to get some help.

i'm not sure if they therapists have sites, but i'd do it for sure if possible