by candymonkeybastard » Thu Oct 01, 2009 6:43 pm
In my opinion, it depends why you're having sex. Most guys have sex because it feels good to them, so it's little wonder women get tired of sex more easily than men. The trick is learning to recondition yourself to want sex for different reasons, to feel connected with and to communicate with your partner, and to make them feel good. This solves a lot of problems, such as the woman agreeing to sex when she doesn't really want it, and generally solves the problem of her getting bored. That being said, most guys can't seem to pull it off. I've talked to my friends about it, why my girl was always so much happier about our sex life than theirs were, and they tried it but just couldn't manage it. Maybe there's something odd about me, I dunno. But I never got bored either, and the look on her face was priceless every time.
That being said, I haven't found anyone I've wanted to sleep with in the last six months, so maybe my advice isn't the best. Oh and she left me because of my mental health issues. *Pout*. Still tries to get me into bed occasionally though ha ha.