Can sex become boring?

candymonkeybastard wrote: to feel connected with and to communicate with your partner, and to make them feel good.

That's a good tactic, if you blow her mind 1 out of every 10 times, then you can bang away and enjoy the other 9 and she will let you do anything. You just have to give enough to make her keep coming back hoping for more. It's a worthwhile investment, despite the hassle.

Umm dude, no? That was so not my point. Evidently you missed the whole part about avoiding our selfish conditioning. The point of making your partner feel good is to make them feel good, because you genuinely care about them, not so you get a free pass to "bang away and enjoy the other 9." Jesus ###$.

UK-SW wrote:I've felt like this for a while and was talking to my mate about it in the pub. His advice was that to spice things up I might try using her "other hole".

And risk her getting pregnant? I don't think so!

No doubt!! I've heard that having sex in the other hole is where lawyers come from.