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Re: I am not my partner's ideal body type

Postby sharni » Wed Apr 02, 2014 11:42 am

I don't believe it's too much too ask for my partner to see me as perfect. I am not everyone's idea of perfect and I do have flaws, but my imperfections should make me even more perfect to him.
I do not see that as such a far fetched idea.. is that not love?

For all the people telling me that my concept on porn inside a relationship is okay, that may be the case for you and that's fine but it is NOT for me. If I am at work missing him while hes sitting around jacking it to women who aren't me then thats no deal.
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He is the only person that I want, emotionally, sexually, physically and visually. If I were sitting around masturbating to other men he and most other men in that situation would feel hurt and unappreciated.
Just wait a few days? Put your dick down for a second, enjoy the tension and release it in a loving, beautiful, passionate and selfless way. Unnatural stimulus does not help you, in my opinion.
Porn has so deeply infected this generation and I see the effects constantly, I am allowed my opinions and beliefs, my morals are who I am. I will not give in to the sick world and just 'let it be'.
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Re: I am not my partner's ideal body type

Postby Dezzi » Wed Apr 02, 2014 3:17 pm

I have the feeling you are expecting too much from your partner. You seem to take yourself very seriously. I don't want to be judgemental but it seems you might be a bit self-centered. A relationship is not just about one person. Your partner has needs too. I can understand if you don't like porn but I think it would be interfering with his personal rights as a human being if you forbade him from ever watching it again. If your sex life suffered from it, that might be a different story, but as far as I remember you said it's amazing, beautiful and passionate.

Also, expecting him to find you perfect is too much as well. It would be ideal, yes and it certainly would be nice, but you can't have it just because you tell him to feel that way about you. Unless you're into lies. It seems to me you're still quite young. All of us are entitled to an opinion, but once that opinion interferes with another humans life and/or rights I think it's too much.
I sometimes wonder what is worse: the triviality of human interaction or the fact that no one notices.
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